He told me he has a crush on someone else?
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Anonymous
| He doesn’t want to break up, but he thought I should know. What am I supposed to do with that? |
Anonymous
| Weird that he told you. How old is he? You? |
Anonymous
| I’m 27. He’s 29. Why the heck would he tell me this? |
Anonymous
| First step to breaking up. He wants you to break up with him. He’s a coward. |
Anonymous
+1 He wants to create conflict. |
Anonymous
I dunno. Maybe he’s just an honest guy and wants to get it out in the open so it doesn’t become a problem. |
Anonymous
| Dump his ass. Why waste your time? |
Anonymous
No. Talking about attractive people is one thing. Crush implies something else. I might tell my wife I find someone attractive but I don’t burden her with info on my crushes. |
Anonymous
Yeah it’s something deeper obviously, but I’m not sure he wants to end it with Op. |
Anonymous
| Hot potato, hot potato |
Anonymous
| Might this be his immature way of telling you he’d like you to put more effort into your appearance? |
Anonymous
| I thought we were happy. This out of nowhere. It’s not like we’ve been having problems. |
Anonymous
| So ask him why he told you. Don't try to guess. Maybe he's trying to get riff of the crush? |
Anonymous
| A well placed stiletto should do the trick. If he has hair, grab it. If he doesn’t, just push him around. |
Anonymous
How long have you been together? Is his crush reciprocated? Is it someone he sees every day? Is she single? I would ask him why he wanted you to know, and if he sees it as a barrier to your relationship. |