He told me he has a crush on someone else?

[Anonymous]

He is using you until someone better comes along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought we were happy. This out of nowhere. It’s not like we’ve been having problems.

How long have you been together? Is his crush reciprocated? Is it someone he sees every day? Is she single? I would ask him why he wanted you to know, and if he sees it as a barrier to your relationship.

They work together. He says he just wanted to be honest with how he was feeling. Doesn’t want me to be hurt or upset. Doesn’t want to break up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought we were happy. This out of nowhere. It’s not like we’ve been having problems.

How long have you been together? Is his crush reciprocated? Is it someone he sees every day? Is she single? I would ask him why he wanted you to know, and if he sees it as a barrier to your relationship.

They work together. He says he just wanted to be honest with how he was feeling. Doesn’t want me to be hurt or upset. Doesn’t want to break up.

He’s an idiot for telling you. Of course you’ll be hurt and upset; it does you no good to know about this. He’s trying to assuage his own guilt, or drop a bomb in your relationship, This doesn’t bode well.

[Anonymous]

Do not marry this guy. Trust me. Honestly, I would probably break up. Mature people with solid boundaries know how to handle attraction to others in respectful ways that don’t hurt people.

[Anonymous]

Bye Bye

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He doesn’t want to break up, but he thought I should know. What am I supposed to do with that?

He wants you to initiate a threesome.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do not marry this guy. Trust me. Honestly, I would probably break up. Mature people with solid boundaries know how to handle attraction to others in respectful ways that don’t hurt people.

This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dump his ass. Why waste your time?

Another vote for dump his ass.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I have to agree. Dump him. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

I always tell my husband about my crushes to diffuse them. Have never cheated on anyone in my life.

[Anonymous]

Um... did you boyfriend every work for Americorps and have you been together for about 8 months now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Um... did you boyfriend every work for Americorps and have you been together for about 8 months now?

This was my thought.

And, if yes, I think TROLL

[Anonymous]

How long have you been together? It's one thing to tell a spouse about a crush, but a boyfriend telling you is a red flag.

[Anonymous]

Assuming you haven’t been together long, I’d dump him. The beginning of a relationship is when you’re supposed to be totally infatuated with the other person. Crushes come years down the road, when the butterflies wear off.

[Anonymous]

My GF has told me of several crushes and guys she thinks are hot. It doesn't mean anything to our relationship. You need to figure out if this means anything, or he is just sharing this to be completely open and honest.