Ask me anything: I am a kept woman

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, did you expect so much uproar, detective work, and judgment when you originally posted here? Honestly, the reason why you are getting so much shit and "advise' is because all of these women live in fear of their men leaving them - you are their worst nightmare.

The OP is a DCUM sensation!

Ha. The Op's boyfriend hasn't left his wife for the Op. In fact, he MARRIED his wife AFTER he met the Op. What is there to feel threatened about? You think that guy is going to lob a grenade into his own life by leaving his wife & kids for the Op? No, never, not gonna happen. The one who is heading for a trainwreck is the Op. There does appear to be some rubber necking going on in this thread already...we can see it coming...Toot! Toot!

[Anonymous]

I think OP has left the bldg.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

What do you call a woman who marries a guy for his money? Why do you think Wendi Deng married Rupert Murdoch? Why do you think Donald Trump's wife married him? Was it their good looks? Their incredible charm? Or was it for their money? And what does it make them?

They are wives. They may be gold-digging wives, but they're still wives.

The OP keeps referring to this guy as her boyfriend, as if they have some sort of real relationship. What would happen if she's going through something and loses interest in sex. You think he'll stick around?

She's providing a service. He's directly depositing money in her account for it.

That's prostitution.

[Anonymous]

You women sound so fucking bitter

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You women sound so fucking bitter

Sure, and you sound like sunshine.

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everyone on the attack on this board must feel vulnerable in some way

Yep, that's it. Because there would be no other reason whatsoever for people to be against this except that they are insecure and vulnerable. Yep.

You may not be, PP but seriously when there are this many responses in a 24 hour period it goes beyond mere curiosity and disapproval. How many threads have you known that have evoked this sort of response in such a short time period?

I think it's just so blatantly wrong and ridiculous. There's no grey area with this one. And the OP is completely unapologetic about it.

Lots of wrong and ridiculous things make it to DCUM. How many of them have gotten 770 posts in 24 hours? The pp has a point, this is more than right or wrong. She has struck a nerve.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

What do you call a woman who marries a guy for his money? Why do you think Wendi Deng married Rupert Murdoch? Why do you think Donald Trump's wife married him? Was it their good looks? Their incredible charm? Or was it for their money? And what does it make them?

They are wives. They may be gold-digging wives, but they're still wives.

The OP keeps referring to this guy as her boyfriend, as if they have some sort of real relationship. What would happen if she's going through something and loses interest in sex. You think he'll stick around?

She's providing a service. He's directly depositing money in her account for it.

That's prostitution.

You can say what you want about paid sex, but the truth is that some men fall hopelessly in love with their mistresses.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you are pretty awesome.

You have this entire board in a tizzy about something that may or may not be true. I guess many on this board are thinking there but for the grace of God go I (being the wife that everyone feels is being wronged)

Or some of us find the scenario interesting because we have had no experience with it in real life.

And hopefully never will. My parents raised me with too much self-respect to share a man with another woman.

In my early 20s- the last thing I wanted was a used, loser with a wife and kids.

OP sounds like a prostitute. Sex for $ and gifts.

Please........get off your high horse.

How many women would end up with a financially well-placed guy if he were not so situated? Sure in those instances it is not a formal payment for sex but part of the reason many women go for a guy is because of his job and what he earns.

She doesn't sound LIKE a prostitute. She IS a prostitute.

What do you call a woman who marries a guy for his money? Why do you think Wendi Deng married Rupert Murdoch? Why do you think Donald Trump's wife married him? Was it their good looks? Their incredible charm? Or was it for their money? And what does it make them?

They are wives. They may be gold-digging wives, but they're still wives.

The OP keeps referring to this guy as her boyfriend, as if they have some sort of real relationship. What would happen if she's going through something and loses interest in sex. You think he'll stick around?

She's providing a service. He's directly depositing money in her account for it.

That's prostitution.

You can say what you want about paid sex, but the truth is that some men fall hopelessly in love with their mistresses.

Are you suggesting that the Op's married boyfriend is hopelessly in love with the Op? Where did you get that impression?

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She already said she didn't want to because she doesn't want kids.

She said that as a way to save face, nothing more: "Of course he would marry me, except that I don't want kids so he was stuck marrying a frigid woman who did."

A frigid woman who only has sex because that's what she has to do to get babies. Lol.

Not unheard of, PP. Especially if it started after she had the kids. Go to the relationship forum and listen to the complaints of women who have lost interest in sex and men complaining their wives don't want to have sex after having children.

Maybe that happens. But remember that this whole thing started up between Op and this guy before he even got married.

No maybe about it. It is commonplace. Many woman seem to accept that once kids arrive, the sex life is over.

[Anonymous]

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You can say what you want about paid sex, but the truth is that some men fall hopelessly in love with their mistresses.

Are you suggesting that the Op's married boyfriend is hopelessly in love with the Op? Where did you get that impression?

He clearly isn't helplessly in love with the woman he married. So no point scored for angry wives.

[Anonymous]

"kept woman" is to prostitute as "conscious uncoupling" is to divorce

[Anonymous]

OP, do your parents know you are in a long term relationship with him? Have they met?

When you make plans, does he often decide what to do? Or you? Both?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, if you get pregnant you will become a threat to him and he will drop you like a hot potato. What's your buyoff number? How much will he have to pay you to have an abortion? Because the moment you get knocked up (and you will), is the moment the gravy train stops. So what's your number?

OP has already said she would have an abortion. I doubt he would have to pay her.

I doubt she'll even tell him.

She'd have to, she relies on him for money like the useless whore she is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To a certain extent, this is a normal thing for a wife to be threatened by.

However, it's also a chance for unhappy women to beat up on someone else.

I genuinely don't understand why anyone would think that asking this OP pointed questions makes someone unhappy.