Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Ok. And so..?
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I thought it didn’t look like typical arm around a girl stuff-it was either like he was holding her up bc she was unsteady or like he was kind of clinging.

at one point she did try to separate from her and he quickly got back in firm arm stance. Again, could be because she was wobbly but I equally could have been overly handsy and bunch she was trying to tamp down in a friendly way.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Where did it say in this particular chain above that anyone is making "up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the [we don't know yet] tragic consequence of the woman's [also don't know] bad decision." Do YOU know all that went on that night, week etc.?


You have implied that the man she was with strategically placed her clothes in the lounge chair. That’s very unlikely based on what we know and have seen in the video footage.

What is your relationship to the girl?
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Ok. And so..?


Bless your heart. A person that killed someone isn’t going to stay and sleep in beach.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


NP. Are you some weird family friend or something? No one needs to state the obvious to you. Alcohol might have been the reason she put her arm around him. Perhaps she wouldn’t have otherwise. She’s an adult that chose to drink excessively. If she made choices she would not have made, that’s her responsibility. Not man she was with.


How do you know she did? Not everyone is saying it was that man who was responsible. That's why questions about others who may have been there are being asked.


She was up until 3am drinking in the lobby bar. She was swaying and couldn’t stay steady walking to the beach. It’s basic logic that she had. When drinking excessively. It’s completely obvious that she was.


Wasn't every young women in that group drinking at some time that night, either or at each of the places they visited before the time at the beach (disco, hotel lobby)? Were the other women also swaying and they also couldn't stay steady walking to beach (haven't watched any of the videos)? How do you know it was excessive was the original question?
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Anonymous wrote:I thought it didn’t look like typical arm around a girl stuff-it was either like he was holding her up bc she was unsteady or like he was kind of clinging.

at one point she did try to separate from her and he quickly got back in firm arm stance. Again, could be because she was wobbly but I equally could have been overly handsy and bunch she was trying to tamp down in a friendly way.

and then she came to her sense and headed back inside to the hotel to sleep it off. that's the ending we wished for
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Anonymous wrote:I thought it didn’t look like typical arm around a girl stuff-it was either like he was holding her up bc she was unsteady or like he was kind of clinging.

at one point she did try to separate from her and he quickly got back in firm arm stance. Again, could be because she was wobbly but I equally could have been overly handsy and bunch she was trying to tamp down in a friendly way.


Tamping down in a friendly way isn't consistent with her choosing to remain alone with him on the beach. She could easily have left with her friends. She looks happy in the video.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


NP. Are you some weird family friend or something? No one needs to state the obvious to you. Alcohol might have been the reason she put her arm around him. Perhaps she wouldn’t have otherwise. She’s an adult that chose to drink excessively. If she made choices she would not have made, that’s her responsibility. Not man she was with.


How do you know she did? Not everyone is saying it was that man who was responsible. That's why questions about others who may have been there are being asked.


She was up until 3am drinking in the lobby bar. She was swaying and couldn’t stay steady walking to the beach. It’s basic logic that she had. When drinking excessively. It’s completely obvious that she was.


Wasn't every young women in that group drinking at some time that night, either or at each of the places they visited before the time at the beach (disco, hotel lobby)? Were the other women also swaying and they also couldn't stay steady walking to beach (haven't watched any of the videos)? How do you know it was excessive was the original question?



I think PP explained very well why it appeared there had been excessive drinking. You ask weird questions that are far less insightful than you suppose.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Where did it say in this particular chain above that anyone is making "up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the [we don't know yet] tragic consequence of the woman's [also don't know] bad decision." Do YOU know all that went on that night, week etc.?


You have implied that the man she was with strategically placed her clothes in the lounge chair. That’s very unlikely based on what we know and have seen in the video footage.

What is your relationship to the girl?


No have not implied that. How do you know that a sarong was not found on the beach and someone else (didn't say that man if you read carefully) found it or as written above was placed on chair by someone else?

What is your relationship to Ribe?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Ok. And so..?


Link? I thought only the path has cameras.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Ok. And so..?


Bless your heart. A person that killed someone isn’t going to stay and sleep in beach.


It confirms his story that he was very drunk and passed out for a few hours.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


There is also video footage at the hotel of him sleeping alone on the beach. You don’t just get to make up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the tragic consequence of the woman’s bad decision .


Where did it say in this particular chain above that anyone is making "up theories that defy logic because it feels better to make another person culpable for the [we don't know yet] tragic consequence of the woman's [also don't know] bad decision." Do YOU know all that went on that night, week etc.?


You have implied that the man she was with strategically placed her clothes in the lounge chair. That’s very unlikely based on what we know and have seen in the video footage.

What is your relationship to the girl?


No have not implied that. How do you know that a sarong was not found on the beach and someone else (didn't say that man if you read carefully) found it or as written above was placed on chair by someone else?

What is your relationship to Ribe?

You know nothing. Maybe stop while you're behind.
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


NP. Are you some weird family friend or something? No one needs to state the obvious to you. Alcohol might have been the reason she put her arm around him. Perhaps she wouldn’t have otherwise. She’s an adult that chose to drink excessively. If she made choices she would not have made, that’s her responsibility. Not man she was with.


How do you know she did? Not everyone is saying it was that man who was responsible. That's why questions about others who may have been there are being asked.


She was up until 3am drinking in the lobby bar. She was swaying and couldn’t stay steady walking to the beach. It’s basic logic that she had. When drinking excessively. It’s completely obvious that she was.


Did she suffer from any preexisting medical conditions which could have caused a balance-impairment?
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Anonymous wrote:Teach your kids not to go to a third world county country for spring break and get wasted go swimming.



The problem is that's not really teachable. You can do you best to instruct a kid about a variety of risks but college students are naive, inexperienced, and impulsive. They rarely know how much alcohol they can handle and can make terrible decisions when under the influence and cognitively impaired. No matter what they've been told.


The other four girls who also traveled on this trip were found "safe", right?



Yes. They weren't crushing on a boy and swimming in the ocean in the dark with him.Fortunately for them. It was one different decision that likely proved fatal, but they were all behaving irresponsibly in terms of excessive alcohol.


How do YOU know that she was?


She was videotaped walking with his arm around her and her clothes were found on the beach chaise. Depending on the clothing found, she was either nude or in her bikini. Why do you suppose that might be, Sherlock?


Unlike you, don't make assumptions. Is alcohol the only reason to make her walk with his arm around her? The report said her sarong was on chair, did it say also her bikini. How do you know she left her sarong there to go in water? And with HIM? Was her sarong placed on a chair by someone else?


NP. Are you some weird family friend or something? No one needs to state the obvious to you. Alcohol might have been the reason she put her arm around him. Perhaps she wouldn’t have otherwise. She’s an adult that chose to drink excessively. If she made choices she would not have made, that’s her responsibility. Not man she was with.


How do you know she did? Not everyone is saying it was that man who was responsible. That's why questions about others who may have been there are being asked.


She was up until 3am drinking in the lobby bar. She was swaying and couldn’t stay steady walking to the beach. It’s basic logic that she had. When drinking excessively. It’s completely obvious that she was.


Did she suffer from any preexisting medical conditions which could have caused a balance-impairment?

that only become evident at 3am after consuming all-you-can-drink alcohol?
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Anonymous wrote:I thought it didn’t look like typical arm around a girl stuff-it was either like he was holding her up bc she was unsteady or like he was kind of clinging.

at one point she did try to separate from her and he quickly got back in firm arm stance. Again, could be because she was wobbly but I equally could have been overly handsy and bunch she was trying to tamp down in a friendly way.


I also thought she tried to pull away.

Hopefully his history is being looked into.
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