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Besides mindfulness, my kids’ school emphasizes having a growth mindset, especially for math. I don’t have any problem with the concept, but I find it a waste of time for two reasons.
First, they read and discuss the *same* books every year. My DD just tolls her eyes at them. Second, like so many of these things, they are preaching a lesson for the last generation. These kids haven’t come along in an environment where they get numerical grades and rankings from the start, and kids are viewed as either “getting” or “not getting” math. The problem of rigidly classifying kids is already handled by the standards-based report cards, the curriculum that develops number-sense and logic, etc. |
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It would be different if all students were learning to read well, have basic math skills down, and could write a decent paragraph. But too many students aren’t. I work at two different schools. One principal focuses heavily on academic remediation. She figures out how to bring in retired teachers, volunteers, run programs that all focus on basic academic skills. The other school the principal is all about SEL and “trauma informed instruction”. She spends all the money she can in SEL.
The school where kids can actually read, write, and do math has fewer behavior issues because kids feel better about themselves because they are successful at school! Kids seem happier there, teachers are happier, it just had a different feel. |
OP here. I am very in favor of supporting classroom teachers in specific PBI techniques etc to deal with behaviors and to implement IEPs. |
OP here - yes I know you do all that! My broader point is you should be better supported and the specific skills you use disseminated to general ed. To me that is very different from “SEL” as currently delivered. |
Thanks for the clarification OP, I was wondering if people were thinking sped teachers weren't qualified in our jobs. Granted I do need support in any students I get who are suicidal and I agree more support in SEL is needed. It can't just be 'let's read this book about a little girl who lost her dad.' And then ask some 'feelings' questions. |
PP but yes my school has held several PDs where people have shared very personal information and were encouraged to do so as part of the training. I always just said vague things like ‘I feel stress balancing my work life and personal life’ or that I had a family member who was struggling and it caused me stress. I had some colleagues flat out refuse to participate because they keep their personal lives very private from work. Which is their right. These trainings always go off the rails because the whole premise is forcing people in a professional setting to have really personal conversations. It never goes well. |
And yet teachers want admin to focus on SEL for teachers. We cannot have it both ways. I for one like it when admin asks us to share. Like you said you don't have to share. It's funny that so many teachers on this board take issue with SEL but don't care if teachers are asking for prayers, celebrating Christmas in the classroom, etc. But teachers in DC always want to complain. Impact, not enough funding, not enough support, I can't do behavior management that's the social workers job, I can't have more sped kids I'm not 'qualified,' and now 'OMG SEL.' Jeez. |
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Hmm, it seems like this thread went a bit off the rails. But to OPs comments, I think it really depends how the SEL is done. I have no patience for "fluff" generally, but I think conscious discipline has been really helpful. The idea is that learning cannot occur if the brain is in the flight or flight state, so it focuses on techniques to help kids feel safe and relaxed so their brain can learn. It's not something that is intended to replace therapy for kids experiencing trauma, nor is it the sort of thing that is only useful to kids who have experienced trauma. In fact, I find the techniques I've learned through the school useful in dealing with my loud (so so so loud) kids, and I'm a well-educated, well-resourced, reasonable-seeming, grown ass woman.
I feel sympathy for anyone, though, who is getting fluff instead of effective SEL, or anyone who is getting SEL in lieu of therapy. |
I have not complained about any of those things. I don’t know any teachers at my school who’ve asked for SEL training for US. We’ve asked to be trained in methods to better support students. And my school doesn’t pray or decorate for Christmas. We recognize we have a diverse community and behave as such. But keep bashing teachers! |
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Effective SEL checks in with kids, lets them share how they are doing in a community in a safe way (with boundaries and parameters), give opportunities for empathy and support, and has some routines for self regulation and care. Also, some conflict resolution. Its generally good stuff, some hooey if you do the full on CA version, but wrapped around a lot of best practices.
I don't trust DCPS to implement it that well overall (though certain schools/teachers may have the training and perspective required). If you don't, it can quickly devolve to window dressing/a time suck/oppressive "tell me how you feel!!!" With that being said, anything implemented poorly can quickly become obnoxious. |
Cite? Studies I’ve seen have shown better outcomes on all measures for standard mindfulness based programs for kids and adults with trauma. Participants on average experienced less anxiety, depression, suicidal ideation etc. than non participants. Saying this is « well known » seems wrong. |
Notice how you didn’t refute the last line. Everything is ‘bashing,’ stop being such a child and just do your job. Hate that teachers like you make us all look bad. Get that training yourself, you should already have those skills. |
none of those studies look systematically for side effects; just group-level changes. mediation instructors like Tara Brach talk extensively about the need to be careful about how you teach people with trauma. https://tricycle.org/trikedaily/trauma-meditation/ moreover, it’s also well known that people with ptsd, trauma, and abuse histories need therapy specifically tailored for them. having untraines teachers deliver “SEL” is careless. https://www.childtrauma.com/blog/go-bad |