DH being super dramatic?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here is a point I am surprised no one has focused on up to now: cat pee.

A broken-down closet door would be infinitely better than cat pee on the floor, especially in a closet containing clothing items. If the cat HAD peed in there, OP would have had to evacuate her 'luxury' items and get a pro in to treat the floor because it is VERY difficult to get out the smell of cat pee.

If someone told me my cat had been accidentally locked in a space in our house without a litter box, I would IMMEDIATELY rush home, in the hopes of preventing a pee disaster.

So I agree with OP's DH here. It wasn't unreasonable to want to do whatever it took to make sure the cat didn't pee on the floor.


OP here. This was the ONLY thing I was concerned about! But my closet floor is polished luxury stone and all my luxury items are up 10 feet inside of glass doors. If I had any expensive items that could’ve been peed on and ruined I would’ve called the fire dept and sent them to my house asap. But I knew I’d be able to get cat pee smell off the floor with no problem. Btw my DH is nose blind and I bet he was hoping the cat would pee everywhere in my luxury closet cause he was so damn mad at me. But luckily she didn’t, not even a turd. Ha


You really overshot your mark, trollina.


Totally 100% true! Sorry
Anonymous
If you have as much disposable income as you're purporting, you can afford a fingerprint lock and include your husband's fingerprint when you set it up.

Your husband was rightfully concerned about the cat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you have as much disposable income as you're purporting, you can afford a fingerprint lock and include your husband's fingerprint when you set it up.

Your husband was rightfully concerned about the cat.


Ohhhh actually that’s a great idea! I’m not trying to keep my DH out just the help. I’m ordering one now on Amazon!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you have as much disposable income as you're purporting, you can afford a fingerprint lock and include your husband's fingerprint when you set it up.

Your husband was rightfully concerned about the cat.


Ohhhh actually that’s a great idea! I’m not trying to keep my DH out just the help. I’m ordering one now on Amazon!


Done! I ordered a keyless deadbolt for my closet! Ty so much for the advice.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you have as much disposable income as you're purporting, you can afford a fingerprint lock and include your husband's fingerprint when you set it up.

Your husband was rightfully concerned about the cat.


Ohhhh actually that’s a great idea! I’m not trying to keep my DH out just the help. I’m ordering one now on Amazon!


Done! I ordered a keyless deadbolt for my closet! Ty so much for the advice.

Make sure you order the luxury version of the deadbolt.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you have as much disposable income as you're purporting, you can afford a fingerprint lock and include your husband's fingerprint when you set it up.

Your husband was rightfully concerned about the cat.


Ohhhh actually that’s a great idea! I’m not trying to keep my DH out just the help. I’m ordering one now on Amazon!


Done! I ordered a keyless deadbolt for my closet! Ty so much for the advice.

Make sure you order the luxury version of the deadbolt.


I did! Antique brass with Swarovski crystals and gorgeous !
Anonymous
Omg I overheard my DH on the phone telling his buddy how I locked the cat in the closet and making me sound like a witch! His interpretation of what transpired made it sound like I did it on purpose and how the cat was traumatized and how the cat could’ve caused a lot of damage that he would’ve had to pay for! And how I even came home an hour late from work after he told me the situation. I called him out on his conversation and reminded him of the actual facts and he immediately stood his ground of his interpretation and dismissed the actual facts of what really happened that day.
Anonymous
No offense OP, but your attitude about your cat’s general discomfort is way off.

Cats freak out over change in any form and your cat was likely stressed.
Or she could have been thirsty.
Or trying not to pee because she didn’t want to get on your bad side.

For you to think a few hrs. of that is acceptable is outrageous.
You are not a cat.....or even an animal person it appears. 😏
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:No offense OP, but your attitude about your cat’s general discomfort is way off.

Cats freak out over change in any form and your cat was likely stressed.
Or she could have been thirsty.
Or trying not to pee because she didn’t want to get on your bad side.

For you to think a few hrs. of that is acceptable is outrageous.
You are not a cat.....or even an animal person it appears. 😏


Why didn’t OP’s DH come and pick up the keys if the cat was so distressed? That’s just as bad as OP dismissing cat’s distress.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:to be clear, you think leaving an animal without food, water, or access to (what they have been trained to use as) bathroom is OK?



She was already fed Sherlock and was 2 hrs late for her dinner. Locked in a huge LUXURY closet and like I said the worst thing that could’ve happened is she peed in there. Fyi my cats don’t drink much water because they’re also on a luxury raw food diet I provide which contains 50% water. Google it.


Luxury closet and cat food? LOL. I think the lady protests too much.

You have some serious issues.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No offense OP, but your attitude about your cat’s general discomfort is way off.

Cats freak out over change in any form and your cat was likely stressed.
Or she could have been thirsty.
Or trying not to pee because she didn’t want to get on your bad side.

For you to think a few hrs. of that is acceptable is outrageous.
You are not a cat.....or even an animal person it appears. 😏


Why didn’t OP’s DH come and pick up the keys if the cat was so distressed? That’s just as bad as OP dismissing cat’s distress.


Exactly! My office is 10 mts away and if he was so damn worried he should’ve come and grabbed the key like I politely suggested after his expletive texts. It was an accident and not worth losing my job over! The cats fine, it’s my DH who’s still bringing it up and being an ass over it .
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here. This was the ONLY thing I was concerned about! But my closet floor is polished luxury stone and all my luxury items are up 10 feet inside of glass doors. If I had any expensive items that could’ve been peed on and ruined I would’ve called the fire dept and sent them to my house asap. But I knew I’d be able to get cat pee smell off the floor with no problem. Btw my DH is nose blind and I bet he was hoping the cat would pee everywhere in my luxury closet cause he was so damn mad at me. But luckily she didn’t, not even a turd. Ha
Anonymous
Can you have a luxury cat door installed on your luxury closet?
Anonymous
Wow, I just read this post in its entirety. OP I’m with you on this, the cats fine. Your husband probably was in a bad mood and this situation was his outlet. Oh, I wish I had your closet. It sounds so decadent!
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