Disagreement With Wife..

[Anonymous]

I like this one better:

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/4804-N-Hamilton-Ave-60625/unit-2S/home/26807079

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like this one better:

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/4804-N-Hamilton-Ave-60625/unit-2S/home/26807079

Same! It’s better in every way.

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of young people moving out of the city selling in that price range. You really should have plenty of options. But an elevator is a must if you have any intention of having a baby.

[Anonymous]

Hmm....this is a toughie.

Since you do the majority of the food preparation in the family then I would think that a kitchen that you are happy with should be a huge deal.

However if your wife will be doing a lot of the shopping + childcare duties, then having to walk up stairs everyday could get problematic in the long run.

Can you both continue your home search until you both find something mutually beneficial to you both??
If time is of the essence and you must purchase a place now, I would vote for the place w/the bigger kitchen.

I wish you both the best of luck in securing your brand-new home❣️

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The smaller kitchen has AMPLE cabinet space for the stuff you NEED. Get rid of all the crap you only use once a year or that doesn't serve multiple functions and you'll find that the smaller kitchen is just fine. Baby plus stairs = hard no.

This. It seems to have a huge pantry and I would prefer a single large space than multiple closed doors across cabinets.

[Anonymous]

Your pick. I don't know why people act like infants don't grow into children who walk. Also, not sure why the lady who previously posted is carrying a 3yo around. We had a walk-up when my son was born. It was fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your pick. I don't know why people act like infants don't grow into children who walk. Also, not sure why the lady who previously posted is carrying a 3yo around. We had a walk-up when my son was born. It was fine.

After 6 months I couldn't lift the car seat and child in it so it would be miserable doing that in a walk up with stuff. Even at two. You are lucky your kids were walkers. Not all kids are, are sleeping, etc.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if you’ve already made a decision on which condo. My advice is neither. You will find one that both of you like. Wait for it. You can put your stuff in storage and rent a furnished apartment as you look if you need to get out of your current place immediately.


Or if you’re hell-bent on buying something ASAP, getthe one with the elevator, it might be easier to sell when the kids are a little older. In other words buy something with the mindset of it will only be five years. If that’s the case, The one with the elevator makes more sense to have while babies are young. It would be easier to navigate if you need to have a baby and groceries carried up at the same time. And if you’re planning to have another baby, it makes even more sense.

Don’t think of this as your forever home. when your kids are about ready to go to school, then you look for the appropriate place to live based on school district if your kids will be going to public school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like this one better:

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/4804-N-Hamilton-Ave-60625/unit-2S/home/26807079

Same! It’s better in every way.

Agree, very nice and it has an elevator. Also the view from the windows seems a little better.

[Anonymous]

Happy wife, happy life

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You really need to keep looking, unfortunately. Every time you cook in a kitchen you don’t like, you will resent her. Every time she lugs a toddler up/down stairs, she will resent you. These are both daily activities.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We currently live in Chicago. I’m from VA but we moved here for my wife. We will here for another 4-5 years at least. We are tired of renting and don’t have any family around. We need to move out of our current place because the building is being sold.

Here are of almost identical ( most condos in Chicago tend to have similar looks/feature because they’re done by the same builder) places that we are considering. I won’t pit the actual address for safety reasons.

Wife’s pick

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/3914-N-Damen-Ave-60618/unit-201/home/109599049

My pick

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/5061-N-Lincoln-Ave-60625/unit-201/home/144720311

This is a fake post, yes? Both kitchens are the same size

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. We currently live in Chicago. I’m from VA but we moved here for my wife. We will here for another 4-5 years at least. We are tired of renting and don’t have any family around. We need to move out of our current place because the building is being sold.

Here are of almost identical ( most condos in Chicago tend to have similar looks/feature because they’re done by the same builder) places that we are considering. I won’t pit the actual address for safety reasons.

Wife’s pick

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/3914-N-Damen-Ave-60618/unit-201/home/109599049

My pick

https://www.redfin.com/IL/Chicago/5061-N-Lincoln-Ave-60625/unit-201/home/144720311

This is a fake post, yes? Both kitchens are the same size

I think OP means layout. His pick has a better layout with more cabinets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I have been in a disagreement and neither will budge. We looking into condos and found two that we settled on. She likes one more than the other, and I like the other one more. Her pick is nice but the kitchen is smaller with less cabinet space, but the living room and bedrooms are bigger. Hers in an elevator building with a shared rooftop deck. My pick is in a walk-up ( 2nd floor) but it’s bigger, has a better layout with big kitchen and lots of cabinets, and it’s has a private deck off the unit. They are both the same price and in desirable neighborhoods.

She likes my pick but doesn’t want to deal with stairs. I like her pick but do not want a smaller kitchen with a shared deck. I feel we will lose both condos if we don’t move quickly. How can I get her to make a decision?

Sounds like she did make a decision, you just don’t like it. Find some new choices OP.

[Anonymous]

At this point, with the way the market is, both apartments have been sold.