Past lover came to party - my husband is pissed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, how did your "friend" bring it up in conversation with DH?

I am really curious on how she went there -- was it a natural extension of a topic? Did she realize by his reaction that he didn't know?

Do you think she may have done so purposefully (as is the popular crowdsourced answer)?

She was gently touching his arm and telling him how important trust wasn’t in a marriage when she just blurted it out.

Yeah she's trying to get your husband, or your husband has already slept with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, how did your "friend" bring it up in conversation with DH?

I am really curious on how she went there -- was it a natural extension of a topic? Did she realize by his reaction that he didn't know?

Do you think she may have done so purposefully (as is the popular crowdsourced answer)?

She was gently touching his arm and telling him how important trust wasn’t in a marriage when she just blurted it out.

But OP was preoccupied with bending over in her low cut dress and accidentally grazing her special guest with her boobs so she missed it . . .

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to think how I would feel if my DH invited one of his ex lovers without asking me and/or without me knowing they used to be intimate. I think I would be unhappy but I wouldn't throw a temper tantrum, either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are we going to talk about the word "lover"? Maybe just calling him an ex would be less inflammatory.

LOL OK why is there a turkey in the bath with these love ahs?

[Anonymous]

I saw the “friend” and the husband making out in the backyard. Was shocked.

[Anonymous]

OP admit it... you were hoping for a 3-way with former lover + DH.
I think your friend was feeling left out, and was hoping for a 4-way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are we going to talk about the word "lover"? Maybe just calling him an ex would be less inflammatory.

LOL OK why is there a turkey in the bath with these love ahs?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqeQLV04kwU

It's an SNL skit

[Anonymous]

Here is how you fix the problem OP.
At your next (socially distanced!) dinner party, just invite one of your DH's ex girlfriends. No need to tell him, he'll figure it out, and when he does, all the stars will align.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is how you fix the problem OP.
At your next (socially distanced!) dinner party, just invite one of your DH's ex girlfriends. No need to tell him, he'll figure it out, and when he does, all the stars will align.

And make sure you bring a turkey!

[Anonymous]

OP is a slut.

[Anonymous]

OP, how is DH taking it? Did the situation get better or worse?

[Anonymous]

You guys are scandalous.

More, please.