Past lover came to party - my husband is pissed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just tell him that it was a long time ago, and it was during group sex so it hardly even counts that it was your lover. It kind of only counts as half or like a quarter of a lover.
That lesser amount should use his mind.

Totally. And also tell him that your ex boyfriend took the rear entrance so it's not like the front entrance was sullied. Then, anytime your ex boyfriend is over for a socially distanced party or otherwise, make sure that he enters and exits through the back door. Your husband will see that this is no biggie.

[Anonymous]

Why was he invited? Stupid move.

[Anonymous]

You were wrong in so many ways, OP, and you're even lying to us now about your "smallish" party. No one has a small socially distanced event and invites some guy from many years ago who 1) isn't a close friend/her spouse doesn't even know, and 2) she banged. So, you actually had a big party but you're not being truthful, just like you were untruthful with you DH. Seems like a trend for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m with your husband on this one. It’s disrespectful to him and your marriage to do that, surely you knew your husband would not like the idea of someone who banged his wife breaking bread in his home.

Yes for sure I figured my husband wouldn't like the idea. Since it really was an innocent invite, I just let sleeping dogs lie. I just thought there would be no point to giving details of something from long ago that has no bearing on anything today

If it has no bearing on anything today, why was your husband upset? And you knew he wouldn't like the idea. Sleep with sleeping dogs and you will get fleas.

[Anonymous]

This girlfriend of yours is NOT your friend! (I only read the OP)

[Anonymous]

OP is a millennial. Let's give her some space. She isn't used to having tough conversations or being told no she can't have her husband and her ex-boyfriend at the same party. Or that she can't have a party during COVID.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This girlfriend of yours is NOT your friend! (I only read the OP)

+1 -- She is after your man... you had better watch this situation carefully.

[Anonymous]

This is why you shouldn't have sex until you're married. Stuff like this happens.

[Anonymous]

“Lover”. “My Lover”

[Anonymous]

You are an idiot who deserves a divorce.

[Anonymous]

An ex BF was the date of a friend of mine at my husbands 30th birthday party. It was quite a surprise for my husband but he handled it well given I had married him and not the other guy. But, for many years it was a story retold many times by my husband.

[Anonymous]

You were stupid for having a party during a pandemic to begin with..

[Anonymous]

Catty cats fight

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m with your husband on this one. It’s disrespectful to him and your marriage to do that, surely you knew your husband would not like the idea of someone who banged his wife breaking bread in his home.

Yes for sure I figured my husband wouldn't like the idea. Since it really was an innocent invite, I just let sleeping dogs lie. I just thought there would be no point to giving details of something from long ago that has no bearing on anything today

If it has no bearing on anything today, why was your husband upset? And you knew he wouldn't like the idea. Sleep with sleeping dogs and you will get fleas.

Why did you invite him over?

Why did one of your dumb ass friends invite him?

[Anonymous]

He wasn't the one, honey, you are!
I mean, with him there was no emotional connection... it was just animalistic sex. There was no love, it was purely physical.