What a ridiculous comment. There's a big difference between helicoptering your young adult like they are a 10 year old, and feeling they are ready to start a family and parent. |
Where do these people live? |
Are you seriously saying a bad breakup or a mistake of a marriage causes people to develop mental illness? |
PP here. I know. So my point is that it’s not THAT crazy for a 22 yr old to have a kid. |
I’m PP. I live in the south but I used to live in the DMV. |
Dp i think steve suffered from bi polar to live his life so recklessly. Bindi and the whole family has this obesssive need for attention from strangers. I read that they are estranged from her grandfather and aunts. What's up with that? |
You can wish them well and still have a robust discussion. |
TikTok is full of them. It’s so weird seeing them flaunt the pregnancies, crying because the baby daddies left them and then gloating that the grandparents ‘who refused to do anything with the pregnancy’ are changing diapers.
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A bad marriage and PPD can absolutely trigger mental illness you didn’t have before. Are you kidding? |
Tou would be sad for your daughter for fulfilling her dreams instead of your dreams for her? That's sad. |
This isn't a robust discussion. IT's There must be something wrong with her and she's ruining her life, because she's married and ahving a baby at 22 instead of galavanting across Europe, getting drunk, having lots of boyfriends, and waiting until she's 25 to get married and struggle with having a baby like I did. |
PP seems to live in the land of tabloid gossip is gospel and fan fiction, so yes she probably believes that. |
Lots of us - in fact, the vast majority of us, according to statistics - didn't have any struggles having a baby after 25 or 30 (or even 35, in my case - not that I'm saying anyone should wait that long!) So no, marriage at 22 is not something to strive for because you fear fertility issues. And the alternative to a young marriage and parenthood is not going to Europe, getting drunk and having lots of boyfriends. Yes, travel is great, but the point is just to live life and explore the world on your own terms for a while, without having to focus on the intense and consuming needs of a young family. |
Yes. Because she wouldn't even know what she was missing out on, by making such a life-altering decision at 22. Don't we all have hopes and dreams for our children? Isn't that why we focus on and invest in their development, education, physical fitness and health, etc.? As I said, I would be supportive no matter what, because the most important thing to me is that my children are happy and healthy - but NO, it's not what I would want for her at such a young age. |
Associate degrees or batchelor Australians are between 17 and 18 when they finish high school. |