They’ve been living in the same house on the same grounds for five years. They even briefly moved out to their own apartment for a short time. Pretty sure the sex ship sailed long ago. Maybe they just didn’t want to wait a full year - his parents can’t even get a flight out of the country, let alone assurances they won’t get stuck or sick plus the costs of getting there. |
Your adult child's wedding is not your personal stage for your attention seeking. If you don't have the type of relationship with your child where he or she would genuinely WANT to have you there, then you have no right to be there. |
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Sounds like Chandler's family put up a fuss. Second wedding to be held in Oregon.
https://www.nowtolove.com.au/lifestyle/weddings/bindi-irwin-chandler-powell-second-wedding-64489 |
When I saw Bindi Irwin’s post, the last thing that would’ve occurred to my would’ve been her education level. |
| PP here. The snobs on here can’t possibly imagine that people can enjoy their lives without a master’s degree or even a bachelor’s degree. |
That’s one downside for me of living in an overachieving area. I value education but I have no patience for spoiled children/adults. I cannot stand the mentality that kids at 20 are “children.” Where I grew up, most kids by 20 were either in the military, driving to college classes from their own apartment, or other. In my mind if kids can’t survive a weekend alone in the house by hs they aren’t ready for life. I’m not going to fully fund college for my kids and they know that (they are young). I read on the college forum and the number of parents who said their kids are sitting home doing nothing was cringeworthy. My kid would be at a grocery store six days a week the summer after college if they couldn’t yet find a job, and they’d be frantically applying to jobs. Flame away. |
The ‘snobs’ were right. Even Bindi admits her rushed wedding ceremony was horrible and clearly it was a mistake to not have his parents. One she would have made if she wasn’t just 21? Doubt it. |
The pandemic is making lots of people make weird or hard decisions. |
I've never heard of this magazine before but I sure hope it's accurate. Seems like she's looking into pulling a Megan Markle. Well, I guess Chandler would be The Megan in this scenario, but still. |
Dp. I think there are lots of ways to raise kids and your way isnt the only way. Not every person matures in the same way at the same rate. My kids applied for jobs but the process is taking longer. If we didnt have covid19 I would agree with you about jobs and older teens. However, we are living in a pandemic and I dont want my kids to get it and pass it along to us. |
One is working at a restaurant and the other a grocery store. If they don't feel safe doing that then its definitely not safe to do in-person schooling which people are championing for (even hybrid), college or k-12, this fall. |
I think that one gives pause because we really don't know if Bindi was given the opportunity to explore what she was interested in. It was all about the zoo and her Dad. Same with actors who seem to push their children into acting. I think it is fine to expose them but, I think both her parents put a lot of pressure on her to perform and even more so when Steve died. |
DP. My recently graduated (from a top west coast school) 22 year old niece is getting married this summer to a guy working on his PhD in physics. She is from an atheist family. It’s really not that unusual. I know lots of people who met their spouse in undergrad. |
Seriously, less than 1% of people have jobs they truly feel passionate about. And I would beg Bindi enjoys her job more than most of us. |
I used to be a zookeeper, and yea, it's pretty much the most awesome job ever. Everyone who leaves (myself included) regrets it. |