15-yo DS Opens Car Door for a Girl

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Buy yourself a gun ladies who needs protect from men

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Anonymous wrote:Buy yourself a gun ladies who needs protect from men

They probably look like Jaba the Hutt, so I don't think they need a gun.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird. Women / Girls don't need a car door opened for them. It is very patriarchal and not someone people do now. Girls can open their own car doors believe it or not!

Weird? Seriously? Independent feminist here who knows the difference between sexism and someone ('male or female) acting considerately.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird. Women / Girls don't need a car door opened for them. It is very patriarchal and not someone people do now. Girls can open their own car doors believe it or not!

Weird? Seriously? Independent feminist here who knows the difference between sexism and someone ('male or female) acting considerately.

If it was considerate then it would be something that both males and females would do for both males and females because we should all be considerate. When it is something that only guys are being taught to do for women, it isn't about being considerate. So yes, if her teen son was being taught to open the car door for everyone - his male and female friends, and to have others open the car door for him out of acting considerately - that would be a different post.

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I'll just add that if someone is wearing heels on the Metro, people not wearing heels should let them sit down. It's really hard to stay balanced when the trains stop/start suddenly, and I know I've accidentally "stabbed" people on their feet with my heels a few times as I try to remain upright. Plus, your legs are way more tired than people who didn't have to balance on them all day long.

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I'm going to explain to my teen son that he shouldn't do things like randomly opening a door for a female friend if he wouldn't do it for a male friend. 9/10 times it's going to be seen as a turn-off to a teen girl in this day and age, plus it's based in a way of thinking and doing (patriarchy) that I absolutely don't want him to adopt. I will continue to teach him to be aware of people around him and how he can be helpful and make their lives a tiny bit easier by doing things like holding open heavy doors, especially for people of all ages and genders who have their hands full.

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Anonymous wrote:I'll just add that if someone is wearing heels on the Metro, people not wearing heels should let them sit down. It's really hard to stay balanced when the trains stop/start suddenly, and I know I've accidentally "stabbed" people on their feet with my heels a few times as I try to remain upright. Plus, your legs are way more tired than people who didn't have to balance on them all day long.

No one forced you to wear heels. Even if you think you have to wear heels in the office, be like most people and bring a pair of flats to use during your commute.

It's not my fault you made poor footwear decisions for a public transit commute.

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When I was dating, I took men doing things like that as a sign of kindness. I only had a problem with it if it was accompanied by a patronizing attitude (which it wasn't necessarily).

I think people need to calm down and focus on the actually sexist things some men do, not on men opening the door for women or pulling out a chair for her at a restaurant.

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I notice that white women under 40 never hold the door open for anyone. They expect the door to be held open for them.

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Good manners!

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Anonymous wrote:Buy yourself a gun ladies who needs protect from men

They probably look like Jaba the Hutt, so I don't think they need a gun.

This is so sexist and unbelievable. It isn't only beautiful women who are attacked! It has nothing to do with beauty. It is about power. Please educate yourself as you are very ignorant.

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Anonymous wrote:Weird. Women / Girls don't need a car door opened for them. It is very patriarchal and not someone people do now. Girls can open their own car doors believe it or not!

+1

I'd be turned off by a man who did this.

I would see it as a sign of kindness, consideration and respect.

Do young men not also deserve kindness, consideration and respect? Would you have your daughters open car doors for the young man? If it is just about respect, then it should go both ways.

Meagan Markle did it for Prince Harry. She opened the car door for him. That was very sweet. But White women are still mad at her because she is 1/2 Black.

Np: Meghan Markle also said this to a group of schoolboys: You have your mothers, sisters, girlfriends, friends in your life, protect them.

I thought women don’t need to be protected by men, we’re capable of taking care of ourselves.

+1

I hate when people say that women need to be protected! We are not delicate little flowers! Today is International Women's Day, how about we take a break from insulting and infantilizing women just for today, because I know it is too much to ask for it to stop all together.

I think what they are saying is don't stand back if a woman is being attacked by a man, verbally or physically. Face it most men are stronger and bigger.