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Parents send their kids to private for a variety of reasons. Private schools have more control over some behaviors. I would argue there is less physical behavioral problems but far more relational aggression. Private schools are great for averages kids, they aren’t good for gifted or LD kids. Private schools have kids who parents have money to send them. Public school offers better advanced classes/differentiation than private (more kids). This has been my observation from moving my kid from a Big 3 to Deal MS. Whether private is better than public is based solely on your child. I think there are kids who benefit more from private. One is not better than the other, they’re different. |
That person has never seen a good AP class then. Contrary to popular belief, they are not all alike. Many many different AP course curricula get approved for credit. It isn't just one thing. |
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Getting into high performing colleges is largely about wealth as a study published by the NYT this week bears out. Being a child of an alum of a high performing college or excelling at a country club sport typically significant time/money investment over years) also helps.
Colleges, even selective ones, need students who can pay the full price or close to it with somewhat of a discount (called merit aid or a scholarship). Time and again admissions office say that performance in high school classes is the strongest predictor of how someone will perform in college -- yet a high SAT/ACT score will allow a less talented student to squeak through. And SAT/ACT results can be significantly increased through paid test prep. Read and join the active thread on the DCUM college and university thread https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/827279.page |
100% correct. And "your kid will be fine because they are high SES" is also missing the mark. "Fine" is not -- nor will it ever be -- enough for this cohort of WOTP families. |
Great, then enjoy your over-crowded HS and MS and stfu. |
So that's the answer: We won't help you because you want your kids to do too well. Gotcha. You know, in many cities, they actually want their students to be high achieving? |
| At minimum, I EOTP man, will not pay for another expansion of Deal or Wilson. NOPE. |
OK that's fine. Will you also do what you can to stop OOB kids from attending? Will you agree to send your own kid to your IB HS? |
YES AND YES. These are the choices I a considering for my kids as they exit elementary school and head to MS: Roosevelt Coolidge early college Banneker Walls Not Wilson. |
As an EOTP person I definitely don't see why OOB need to be included at either Deal or Wilson if they're crowded. Are there really that many? How do they even get in? I would never expect my kid would go there. I do get the whole idea that we need to spread the wealth around a bit, but this does not seem to be the way to do it. Then again, for reasons that are clear in this thread, I'm prepared to move out of the city if need be to access honors track classes. Our other option will be DCI. |
Nope. It's that if you refuse a pro-social, community-minded solution to allocating scarce resources, then the system is not going to go out of its way to help you. You've made clear that you believe you are your own little special island in DCPS, so that's what you'll get. |
| Yeah there definitely seems to be a vibe here like, “we won the meritocracy, you must bow to us now.” Not sure that is an actual requirement of social policy. I at least am more interested in seeing if I can make something good for as many people as possible before looking at extracting the best for me. |
No, we're asking for a solution that allows for equal to the achievement potential they already have if they attend Wilson. So, for instance, if you want to rezone some schools, can you show that accelerated classes are offered with a track record of success? |
In theory that's fine. But when you are dealing with your child's own education, the risks are too high. There's no bowing - there's an ask that DCPS provide a vehicle for kids who excel to be supported in doing so. Wilson and test ins are the current options. If DCPS wants me to send my kid somewhere else, they need to show me that it can work there as well. |