Women irritate me (vent)

[Anonymous]

NP, female. Women/girls can easily make me feel trapped into a “sex and the city” episode. I hate it. There are exceptions.

[Anonymous]

Like attracts like, OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Like attracts like, OP

+1

Just yesterday I was chatting with a friend who runs her own business about the grant she had applied for and her various plans for scaling up and my plans for advocacy work in involved with and how all the women in our (not overlapping) social circles are doing extraordinary things and are extremely supportive of one another. In fact we also discussed how lovely it was that many of us have young children, various versions of marriage or lack of spouse involvement and different parenting styles and yet we can still turn to one another for advice without judgement. My female friends are a loving safety net against a crazy world.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Like attracts like, OP

Not in my experience. I'm a genuinely nice, people-pleasing person and mean people see that and treat me like crap to feel better about themselves. Usually women but one Male ex did as well. I was raised by a Narcissist to feel this was normal.

- recovering Doormat

[Anonymous]

Cool story. Do you also really like beer and football?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like attracts like, OP

Not in my experience. I'm a genuinely nice, people-pleasing person and mean people see that and treat me like crap to feel better about themselves. Usually women but one Male ex did as well. I was raised by a Narcissist to feel this was normal.

- recovering Doormat

Not in my experience either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Cool story. Do you also really like beer and football?

Yes. I love football. I grew up watching it with my dad. And I love dark beer esp porters and stouts.

Women on this site have said that I'm faking these to get Male attention. They can't believe it is genuine. Why would I make it up on an anonymous website?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman, but for the most part I hate hanging out with other women. The majority of women I encounter are insufferable. They are needy, have unrealistic expectations of you, and have no yet perfected how to be independent. They also have not learned how to enjoy time alone with themselves. I know this is not ALL women, but it is a lot of women. It's maddening. Men are so much simpler. I envy the way their friendships work at times.

Sounds like you don't like women who have partners. Are you single and looking to make new friends and they keep talking about their spouses or whatever? If you genuinely want friends then you need to learn to listen to them and understand that not everything is about you.

[Anonymous]

I am a woman and the only dating advice I have ever given men is “don’t date women who don’t seem to be able to have positive female friendships”— without fail OP, women like you are your own worst enemy. You come across as angry, competitive and petty. Smart women avoid women like you. Men dating women like you end up unhappy too. Time for some self reflection.

[Anonymous]

As I get older, unfortunately, all people are starting to irritate me more and more. I am turning into a grumpy old human.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and the only dating advice I have ever given men is “don’t date women who don’t seem to be able to have positive female friendships”— without fail OP, women like you are your own worst enemy. You come across as angry, competitive and petty. Smart women avoid women like you. Men dating women like you end up unhappy too. Time for some self reflection.

Hmm maybe the advice should be dont marry someone who doesn't have female and male friends. B.c my DH says most of his guy friends have zero common interests with their wives other than the kids after many years of marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a woman and the only dating advice I have ever given men is “don’t date women who don’t seem to be able to have positive female friendships”— without fail OP, women like you are your own worst enemy. You come across as angry, competitive and petty. Smart women avoid women like you. Men dating women like you end up unhappy too. Time for some self reflection.

That sounds like a very self-centered advice. Time for some self reflection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Never trust a woman who doesn’t like other women. Agree with PP that what OP describes is a lonely way to be.

YES. Women who don't like other women are not loyal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As I get older, unfortunately, all people are starting to irritate me more and more. I am turning into a grumpy old human.

Same. But agree with OP's post, too.

[Anonymous]

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