Really? What major companies are doing that? If you are hiring a college grad, why would you care about 4-5 year old scores? If it’s someone who did not go to college, they may not even have an SAT score. I find this hard to believe and would love to see a source. |
It seems to me, anecdotally of course, that the prevalence of accommodations (with potential, but not certainty, for greater numbers of abusers where there is a substantially higher prevalence) varies geographically, such as where there is greater societal pressure to attend a top school. However, factors behind an increased prevalence at especially academically demanding high schools may be multi-faceted. I have a 10th grader who suddenly started struggling with focus and concentration in the past 12 months, enough for adhd diagnosis. We are addressing through other means (vision issue through vision therapy et al.), and an accommodation request is not in our current plan. I just want to point out that this does happen. And we will be full of second-guessing -- if our methods are not effective, should we have gotten accommodations for him, heading into his junior year? Are we making an unwise choice? Time is running out. Ultimately I don't think it will matter much as his grades have taken enough of a hit that top-40-ish schools are likely off the table. |
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Just like I want to know how many kids you have at home that may cause issues when I'm hiring you, I want to know what kind of special accommodations you need to work for me.
A standing desk and a special chair? Done. Want to balance on a ball? Take two! If I give you a project that takes 3 others on your team 10 days to complete and you tell me you need 20... eh, not so much. Why would I hire someone who needs double the amount of time to complete one task? For the same salary I can find one who can do it in 10 days like the others. I predict more self employment and entrepreneurship in the future, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. No way these ADHD kids to adults are going to make it in a normal 9-5 setting with strict deadlines. I bet disclosing their special accommodations would dissuade parents from having their kids tank the screening tests to get the diagnosis. If I require you to send me you college transcript and I saw that you made a 4.0 at Yale but needed twice the time of the 3.5 kid from JMU, I'm passing on you. |
umm, puberty? who doesn't struggle with concentration in high school? and i say that as a nerd who put school over everything else. |
yeah, but there won't be any real accommodation. i mean, they won't even pretend. |
This is the problem. Rich people can buy their children entrance anywhere. I have no doubt that your DH can afford as many specialists as it takes to get your son any diagnosis he needs. And when it’s time to apply for jobs I’m sure your DH’s network will open many doors that would otherwise be closed. None of this has anything to do with your kid’s abilities (or lack thereof.) This gradual erosion of meritocracy is creates an uniquely American aristocracy. It’s the reason that the US is in decline and China is not. We’re suppressing real talent to support the illusion that lower performing rich kids really are the best and brightest. |
Holy cow! You do realize you can’t ask someone how many children they have at home for that exact reason, right? It’s Illegal and none of your business. They may have “accommodations “ (aka childcare or a stay at home spouse) to address their child handicap. (Eyeroll). Do you ask that of men, too, or just women? This tells me all I need to know about you. |
Guess what? These kids' future employers are going to provide assistance and considerations, too. Are you going to come whine that junior didn't get a job at Acme Co but the deaf person who needs an interpreter did? Come on. |
DP.. and yet somehow your DH was able to get to where he is without accommodations when he took the SATs right? |
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Rich people buy their way into top colleges through donations.
Rich people buy their way into top colleges through the side door. Rich people "buy" their way into top colleges through getting SN diagnosis. Basically, the idea of meritocracy in higher ed is only applicable to the not so rich class. In this regard (and some others), the US is worse than most of the other developed countries. We are encouraging our DCs to apply to colleges in the UK. They are dual citizens. |
Top companies like Google still look at your GPA even if you are not a recent grad. They asked for my college GPA. I had been out of college for 20 years. Also, companies like Google ask a lot of brain teaser questions. If you take too long, they won't be impressed. They like people who can think quickly and on their feet. |
First and last bolding: Illegal hiring practices. Second bolding: A complete misunderstanding of LDs and how they work. Second to last bolding: And yet, ADHD adults RIGHT now are in the workplace. And they have been for a couple or so decades of diagnoses and accommodations. And they are doing just fine. Overall, you are wrong on just about every single count. |
If rich people in the US can game the system, why can't the Chinese? The way the system is setup, it's too easy to be able to game the system and cheat. Maybe if the system was different, this Chinese kid wouldn't be able to cheat the system, like the other real American parents do. |
Again.. and somehow, these adults managed to do alright without adjustments to the SATs. I don't know.. we hear a lot of people complaining about the younger millenials in the work place. Maybe they were given too much accommodations when they were younger and now as adults, they have a harder time dealing with life. |
Nobody worthwhile is asking for SAT scores. |