I know that UMC parents cannot move into their child’s dorm room which is what a lot of these kids are needing and what they were used to re executive function. It has nothing to do with smarts or how hard an Ivy League school is. It has everything to do with deficits that the child has not learned to overcome but rather has only been given advantages for—and he’s not getting all of them in college. He’s not failing out of college. He’s obviously choosing to drop out. |
Ok. You and OP are right, and the person who teaches at a college (and has actual experience) who says this is a huge statistical anomaly is wrong
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Because you believe a lady's unbelievable story. Also, the lady is strongly implying that these are kids WITHOUT LD's, so your experience with your child is not relevant. |
No, everybody didn't do just fine. I have a friend who has ADD and did way below her potential. It was a struggle for her well into adulthood. She was finally diagnosed as an adult, takes medication and it has changed her life tremendously. Thirty years ago, we were willing to let kids with potential fail because we labeled them lazy or dumb. Maybe some accommodations are fake, but for those with real issues, they aren't utter nonsense. They allow people with LDs to access a good education so they can be meaningfully employed. Once out of college, they can chose a career that plays to their strengths, and be successful in life. They don't have that chance if they are undereducated because they are denied appropriate accommodations/access. Might my kid without accommodations be slightly disadvantaged because others get extra time? Maybe, but I prefer that to having kids fall through the cracks and have to struggle through life because I'm too competitive to want these kids to get help. My DC will be fine, as will most kids with no LDs, regardless of which college they attend. |
+1. My junior gets time and a half for math and math based science (chem and physics). He can get a extra day or two if multiple projects fall due at the same time. But he rarely does, because it just puts him in a hole as more work becomes due. And teachers at this school will give this accommodation to any student who asks under the written student advocacy guidelines. Two major assignments due the same day, you can request and extra class period for one. And... that’s it. He completes every assignment. 98% on time. And is graded to the same standards. The only real difference is that he is given 2/3 of his math and science exams during the class period, and has to go after school to do the last 1/3. The only other intervention this year was I emailed 2 teachers who had “did not complete” and 0s in Grade book last week to make sure all work was turned in before the end of the year. This was only after he had checked with the teachers and been told they would look into it. 2 months ago. Both got back to me in under an hour to say they had received the assignments and mis-entered them into Grade book. This was the only time we had to work with his teachers this year, except for his annual 504 meeting. So, does this set him up to fail in college? He will probably this summer and continue to request extra time in math and physics/chemistry in college. And... that’s it. BTW, my kid got a 1520 on the SAT (740 V/780 M) and 800s on the math and physics SAT 2 tests. With extra time.
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No 30 years ago, bright girls with ADHD usually learned coping mechanisms, but they came with a price. Many had crippling anxiety and/or OCD as the competing demands outstripped their ability to balance them. And ADHD boys hit a wall and started failing. It might be MS, HS or college. But eventually, they couldn’t manage anymore. My first college boyfriend was brilliant, especially in math and CS. And had a full academic scholarship to our T25 college. He was also almost certainly undiagnosed ADHD. He flunked out sophomore year. 30 years ago, MS and HS academics were less demanding, ADHD kids were labeled discipline problems, problems stemming from ADHD existed but were labeled something else. And ADHD boys, especially, failed. |
Why do people make this silly claim? I remember taking the SAT. If I had twice as much time, I could have done better. |
Teachers had more leeway.. good teachers gave accommodations.. i received accommodations and there was not IEP meeting. |
It's not like handicapped spots at all! There are a limited number of spots close to the store. On the other hand, there is no comparable limit to giving everyone extra/unlimited time. |
It's more like glasses,,,, kids that don't need glasses won't benefit. So you are not going to take away glasses from kids. |
Great, so if extra time isn't beneficial for others, why is the test timed? |
far cheaper and easier to administer |
Thank you. Wow, the idiocy on this thread. Some of these people must live under a rock or have pent up jealousy towards others who have ultimately done better than them in life. |
I have never once asked for the standardized test scores of any person I've interviewed for a job in the past 15 years. |
DP here and sounds like you're advocating for robots. I know quite a few highly creative and intelligent people who have done amazing things in their life and career and who are lollygaggers. You're advocating for everyone to be put into a box. That is NOT "thinking outside the box" and leads to stagnation in innovation. |