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What are people using to set the baby down in during the day? Newborn DS sleeps at night in the bassinet (lucky us!) if we use the RNP during the day in the living room. We’ll probably continue doing that at least until he rolls over. We used it much longer with DC1, but may not do that again.
Question is - if we ditch the RNP, where do we set him during the day? Swings, car seats, etc all have the same incline/positional asphyxiation risk, don’t they? |
I read the CR page yesterday, nothing new from what FP disclosed. WSJ is behind a paywall |
Until they have some head/neck control, they need to be on a flat surface, like a pack n play, or closely attended in a swing that fully reclines (or almost fully). Try a Moses basket. |
And what do parents do when babies can't be put on this type of surface without screaming? |
Have you tried a structured carrier? With a newborn insert if needed. I couldn't live without ours. Baby was screamy during the day if she wasn't constantly held. The carrier was a great solution. |
Did your kid have reflux? Cuz the receiving blanket under the mattress sure as hell didn't work for my kid who did. I love all the people on here who dole out advice and gleefully insult others who have no idea what they are talking about. Or who think that their personal experience applies to every child. |
The people who go by the same standards for themselves as licensed day cares won’t set baby in anything. They put baby on the floor on a rubber mat, or hold them, or use an Ergo or another carrier, or the crib/flat surface pack and play. That’s it. I think it’s unrealistic but that’s all that’s technically “recommended” for maximum safety. |
We used a fisher price bunny swing. The incline was enough so that there was no chin to chest going on. It wasn’t deep like the RNP. |
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My second wasn’t a huge fan but we definitely used it a bit. It’s tough because many babies don’t settle well on their backs. But if flat on back in bare crib is really the only safe thing? Gentle newborn sleep training....because you can only not sleep for so long. Otherwise you’ll wind up with accidental cosleeping which has its own risks.
We may have a third. I’ll try for schedule and mini attempts at self soothing by 2 months or so. |
My baby had reflux until he was 1! I still didn't have him sleep in a freaking rnp. Guess what? He's alive now! |
Here’s your gold star. |
My baby slept in a RNP for 2 months. Also alive, just like the 99.999999995% of children that used it. Best part is that I didn’t careen into PPD. Lack of sleep is a trigger for depression for me and I was really, really concerned. With the RNP, my nursing child slept 5-6 hrs straight from week one. Balancing the very real risk of postpartum psychosis vs the infinitesimal chance a weak-necked child would die in the RNP vs swing or car seat, I took the chance and would take it again. |
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So, since a car seat is also a risk for positional asphyxia, how many of you are actually pulling over every few minutes to make sure that sleepy newborn in the backseat is still breathing?
I’m not trying to be snarky here. I was so terrified of positional asphyxia when DD was a baby, and I never could get a straight answer out of any of the so called experts and professionals on this. People were quick to lecture on “back is best” when DD had horrible reflux and couldn’t lie flat without screaming in pain, but my concerns about the car seat, even for short trips, were shrugged off. |
With all due respect this is just comically unhelpful advice. I know it's well intentioned but it's so unhelpful. "What do I do if my baby will never sleep on its back without screaming?" "Carry them all day in a structured carrier" So when does mom do all the things OP asked about like take a shower? And when does mom sleep? Also, FWIW, babies have died of positional asphyxiation in carriers too. I'm not anti carrier at all but they carry the same risks. |
| I don't get why they ha to recall the RnP vs just saying it should not be used as a sleeper. Seriously, why can't I use it as a seat during waking hours? |