Or, multiple people are disorganized (a more likely scenario) |
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I get that this result is upsetting, but they have done it this way for years and I can’t recall anyone having a problem with it before. When my child was a semifinalist, we read the information and noted the date for the names to be sent in right away. The dates are not hidden in any way and seemed pretty obvious.
I just don’t see how they can change the rules for one group of kids (or their parents, actually). What would they say to kids in past years who missed the deadline and didn’t get a second chance? To be fair, they have to apply the same rules from year to year. Sometimes when something seemingly bad happens, we look back and realize that it was actually a good thing because it set us off on an even better path. I hope that ends up to be true for your children in this situation. |
There was a requirement to ask the teachers face to face |
One of our teachers required a face to face request, the other one did not, and just asked for an email. |
Is this requirement in the application information from TJ or is this an individual middle school/teacher requirement? I don’t remember seeing this the year my child applied. |
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Please send the letter and cc the school board. Your kids’ applications next year will be rejected on grounds of inability to read simple dates and to follow simple instructions.
Or is it the parents “dream” for kid to go to TJ? Again, this school is for gifted kids who want it! Not for their parents. |
You are so rude. I’m a different poster. This missed deadline makes no statement about this kid’s ability or desire to go to tj, whatsoever. |
0931 here. This was not a requirement in the application information from TJ. It seems to be an individual teacher requirement. The teacher who required a face to face request had strict requirements on internal deadline dates such as 1) talk to me by x date 2) provide me with your answers to my questionnaire by x date. This teacher had talked to the students about this process when school started. Teacher also rounded up the semifinalists in class to remind them of the internal process. I thought this teacher was well organized. The other teacher didn't ask for anything at all! I will agree that this application process has a lot of logistical hoops- but then again, everything has logistical hoops. I did pay attention to all the dates myself, wrote them all on the family calendar. DS had a pretty good handle on the deadlines but I still sat with him when he logged into the TJ portal to enter the teacher names. Anticipating any system glitches, i had him screenshot the "Your request for teacher recommendations have been submitted" confirmation. I imagine that applying for college will be just like this, but with multiple schools. |
So except for certain teachers who requested that students ask face to face, semifinalists had a full week to ask teachers because they could have sent an email at any time during that week. It seems that the majority of applicants had enough time to complete this step on time. |
My dd is a senior this year, so the college app process is fresh in my mind. Much like the TJ application, there is no wavering on entering the names of your recommenders and electronically “inviting” them to submit the recommendation. The occasional leeway only exists if the teacher is late submitting the recommendation from their end. |
| The letter is poorly written, absolutely full of grammatical errors, and involves too much emotion. A petition for something like this is ridiculous and will fall on deaf ears, but if you insist on continuing, have it proofread by a native English speaker who has done business style writing. |
Such a poorly drafted Email - too long and horrible language. They will just read it and toss it. Please consider redrafting and making it concise and the language better. |
OP you seem like a very nice and positive person. Sorry this happened, but everything happens for the best. Your child will be happier and that matters more - TJ does not define happiness or success in life. All will be just well and your child will excel wherever she is. Don't be sad, at all. |
+100% Petitioning parents -trying to help you from yourselves. Missing the deadline sux. It's disappointing. But now its time to focus on something else. The petition and the very embarrassing letter are not the answer. Let. It. Go! |
Allowing kids to submit past the deadline is unfair to the kids/parents who made sure they were on top of it. The very fact that you missed the deadline shows the dedication. Last year my DD was the one who monitored the deadlines, and all us were on board. Where was your DC in this whole process? |