Average straight guys: tell us about your dating experiences

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat.
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs.
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself!

This nonsense makes me envy gay guys

Gay men know those rules and follow them. Ever watch Queer Eye? All they do is teach straight men how to do the above.

You're not too bright. Gay guys are being judged by other men and not women, who tend to grade on the curve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat.
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs.
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself!

This nonsense makes me envy gay guys

Seriously could you image a thread that told women something like this? It really show you how egotistical these women are. DC is know for very average women(3-5’s) who think they are the bomb.

Women should be told this. Be fit, dress well, learn the art of conversation, and carpe diem. This advice would address most problems in life. Everyone should be taking it. (It's my approach to life, and it works. I am a woman.)

100+. You are seriously taking issue with a list that says: go to the gym regularly, take a little care in your appearance, and try to be nice and interesting. This is not a heavy lift (for a woman or a man)! The fact that you think otherwise truly may be the source of your problems...

Agree. You’ll attract higher quality people being fit, attractive, well dressed and interesting vs fat, slovenly, and boring. Like attracts like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat.
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs.
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself!

This nonsense makes me envy gay guys

Seriously could you image a thread that told women something like this? It really show you how egotistical these women are. DC is know for very average women(3-5’s) who think they are the bomb.

Women should be told this. Be fit, dress well, learn the art of conversation, and carpe diem. This advice would address most problems in life. Everyone should be taking it. (It's my approach to life, and it works. I am a woman.)

100+. You are seriously taking issue with a list that says: go to the gym regularly, take a little care in your appearance, and try to be nice and interesting. This is not a heavy lift (for a woman or a man)! The fact that you think otherwise truly may be the source of your problems...

!%^$& off with your loser advice. Being fat, obnoxious, and ugly is the path to success in life and banging supermodels. Nice guys finish last. Look at our president!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat.
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs.
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself!

This nonsense makes me envy gay guys

Seriously could you image a thread that told women something like this? It really show you how egotistical these women are. DC is know for very average women(3-5’s) who think they are the bomb.

Women should be told this. Be fit, dress well, learn the art of conversation, and carpe diem. This advice would address most problems in life. Everyone should be taking it. (It's my approach to life, and it works. I am a woman.)

100+. You are seriously taking issue with a list that says: go to the gym regularly, take a little care in your appearance, and try to be nice and interesting. This is not a heavy lift (for a woman or a man)! The fact that you think otherwise truly may be the source of your problems...

!%^$& off with your loser advice. Being fat, obnoxious, and ugly is the path to success in life and banging supermodels. Nice guys finish last. Look at our president!

You can be fat, obnoxious and ugly but still bang supermodels if you are very very rich. Look at our president! Being rich makes up for a lot of shortcomings but most fat, obnoxious.... men are not rich just losers.

[Anonymous]

I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

Uh huh. And what value do you add, exactly? Women in DC - like pretty much everywhere else - think all they need to bring to the table is their vagina.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

Uh huh. And what value do you add, exactly? Women in DC - like pretty much everywhere else - think all they need to bring to the table is their vagina.

Ha. My six-figure salary, my education, my amazing house, my BMW, my Rolodex, and my 32DDs. You forgot where you live - DC women have a fair bit going for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

Uh huh. And what value do you add, exactly? Women in DC - like pretty much everywhere else - think all they need to bring to the table is their vagina.

Ha. My six-figure salary, my education, my amazing house, my BMW, my Rolodex, and my 32DDs. You forgot where you live - DC women have a fair bit going for them.

You had me with the 32DD's. Everything else many others have!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

Uh huh. And what value do you add, exactly? Women in DC - like pretty much everywhere else - think all they need to bring to the table is their vagina.

Ha. My six-figure salary, my education, my amazing house, my BMW, my Rolodex, and my 32DDs. You forgot where you live - DC women have a fair bit going for them.

What does your salary, your resume, and your stuff have to do with dating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

I’m a woman and totally agree with the above statement. I have financial security, a nice house and a lot of hobbies, interests and friends. I don’t need a guy. Sometimes someone falls into my life that enhances it. But absent that I’m happy living my best life single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that something that gets overlooked is that marriage and partnership can be a really hard sell for some, especially those in the 20% mentioned earlier. If you make a lot of money, own a house, and have a great social life outside of coupledom, it takes someone pretty spectacular to make you partner up. The result is that the coveted 20% dates recklessly because they have no skin in the game, and will only pair off when confronted with someone who can actually make their life better in some tangible fashion. From a female perspective, getting a date in DC is stupid easy. Around here, if you wear lipstick and heels you become a 10. The hard part is finding someone who adds value. Having sex is one thing, sharing your resources is another.

Uh huh. And what value do you add, exactly? Women in DC - like pretty much everywhere else - think all they need to bring to the table is their vagina.

Ha. My six-figure salary, my education, my amazing house, my BMW, my Rolodex, and my 32DDs. You forgot where you live - DC women have a fair bit going for them.

You had me with the 32DD's. Everything else many others have!

Yeah, the last item is the only important one. The other things I already obtained for myself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your problem:

1. 80% of the women are chasing 20% of the men.
2. You think you are in the 80% of the men who are not being chased ("average straight guy... average looks... average guy who isn’t a player...")

Solution:

Stop being average.

1. Go get jacked. Most of the guys I see are skinnyfat.
2. Dress well. Most guys I see are slobs.
3. Improve your social skills. Most guys are inept, especially at speaking to women.
4. Do interesting things. Most guys are boring.

If you have muscles, are well dressed, are chatty and confident, and have an interesting life, you will be in the top 5% of men.

Now enough of your defeatism. Go forth and improve yourself!

This nonsense makes me envy gay guys

Gay men know those rules and follow them. Ever watch Queer Eye? All they do is teach straight men how to do the above.

Ever been to a gay bar? Those Queer Eye sissies are not typical gay men. Typical gay men are just like straight men--some are overweight, some wear baseball hats, some are poorly groomed. They like sports, beer, burgers and steaks, and think women talk too much.