So your conclusions are not unsupported, but the study's conclusions are unsupported? Your conclusions as to the motivation behind the study are based on what you have read/interpreted. The study's theories are based on observations and data, with stated limitations. Labeling the study as a "crap study" IS being skeptical of the study. You don't believe that it is useful. That is skepticism. |
This is amazing. Thanks for sharing. The Catholic schools always get torn down on DCUM and this is one example of how they make a difference. |
| a quick request to the two posters who are having an interesting conversation but including their whole back and forth thread in each post; do you mind please just including the last one or two comments in your new posts so each individual post isn't so long? |
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I hate to break it to US "liberals", but most European countries give choices to parents, including sending their kids to Catholics schools for free (basically), as long as said schools commit to national curricula and common admission systems.
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There are several similar Catholic schools - some high schools, some middle schools. If you want to support some locally, check out Sisters Academy (girls) and St Ignatious Loyola in Baltimore (boys). Their goal is to get their kids into rigorous college prep high schools (typically on FA). Both schools are totally free. https://sistersacademyofbaltimore.org/school/ http://www.saintignatius.org/ I am confident both schools would appreciate any help you can offer them. |
Local to the DMV are... Washington Jesuit Academy: https://www.wjacademy.org/ San Miguel School DC https://sanmigueldc.org/ don bosco cristo rey http://www.dbcr.org/ Washington School for Girls https://www.washingtonschoolforgirls.org/ Consortium of Catholic Academies https://catholicacademies.org/ |
We are at one of the Consortium Catholic Schools in DC - St. Anthony's Catholic school and absolutely love it! I mean seriously love it. We are a MC/UMC (who knows how this is defined these days) and are beyond thrilled with the care, dedication, and education that our child is getting there. It's an extremely strong and warm program. They had a Spanish spelling bee a few weeks ago for grades 1-8. I was blown away. Everything was done in Spanish from asking to repeat the word, use the word in a sentence etc. As far as discipline goes, I have observed how the older kids are disciplined and honestly they seem to do a better job than we do at home. I remember volunteering at lunch time a few weeks ago with the older kids (our kid is in primary school) and it was a special lunch (taco lunch). The teacher in charge of lunch announced that everyone should get their lunch and that those who are having silent lunch (and she said they know who they are) should get their lunch and then meet at the table where she was for their lunch. The other approach I've observed is that kids get sent to the admin office which is in the entry way. They come with their homework and are either sitting down on the benches doing work or are helping the administrative assistant with tasks. This is usually after school so maybe its aftercare issues that are dealt with this way. The kids are warm and caring. The older kids all know the younger kids and constantly stop and call out to the younger kids and give hugs etc. to them (and this includes the 8th graders). So much so that I'm taking our pk3er to the 8th grade graduation this week because he has so many friends in 8th grade (who would have thought)! As far as volunteering, I don't think they would be opposed to volunteers, but all volunteers at any of the Archdiocese Catholic Schools, including parents, have to take a 3 hour sexual assault training as well as get background checked prior to having any interaction with children (including being chaperones on trips etc.). I went to private schools growing up including a few years in catholic school in NY when I was younger. Our neighborhood school was not an option for our kids as our school has a bit of a ways to go. We were seeking a strong academic environment that was warm with a parent body that shared similar values to us and that was the draw for us when selecting this school. We wouldn't have been opposed to a good public school but found what we were looking for in this pk3-8th catholic school. |
| I love my son's Catholic school. He got in trouble for being on an unapproved website while he was supposed to be doing research. At my school, if I sent a kid like this to an admin, he'd be back in class in 10 minutes. No consequences. My son was sent to the middle school principal, had to write a letter of apology to the teacher on the other side of the office referral. He said the principal told him it needed to be his neatest work or he would have to write it again. I have never seen such beautiful handwriting in my life. I had to sign it and return it. When I asked him about it, he said, "It really was a stupid choice." Was his teacher blamed for this? Nope. It was his choice. At my school, had I sent this paper home, I would've gotten a parent screaming in my face the next day or radio silence. In Catholic schools, parents agree to the rules/procedures in the student code of conduct and they back this up at home. My son doesn't have a cell phone but if he did, he would have to put it in the box in his homeroom where it would be all day. At my school, we have the same policy. When I see students sneaking looks at their phones, many of them refuse to hand them over. The admin tells me I cannot take them from them so... Ridiculous. It reminds me of this cartoon showing the parents from 1960 getting upset with their child for failing grades. These days, the parent is getting mad at the teacher. |
I'm assuming you work in a public school where laws apply and student have civil rights, right? Your school is the government and we put limits on our government. I agree with the attitude issue, but your school is not ridiculous when it points out that they have legally defined procedures they have to follow when it comes to rule enforcement and discipline. And for the most part, the rules they don't enforce well are the ones they know or think may be found unlawful, so they don't push the envelope with the violators in order to keep the rule in place. |
Oh Please!! This is exactly why kids are so entitled in the public schools. There are no boundaries whatsoever. So glad both of my kids are in Catholic. |
The kids should get to do whatever they want because we might be violating their civil rights? This is one of the many reasons why people leave public school. When the kids are in charge, good luck with the educational part. |
x1000 I am not the teacher who wrote the first post but her assessment of what would happen is on target for my school. Actually our AP would probably come ask me why I had sent the kid to the office, didn't I know she was busy? Well, yes, she is busy because she didn't handle the little things at the beginning of the year and now all those kids are into bigger and better things. We reap what we sow in public school. |
As a parent, I find this response comical. They are CHILDREN. Yes, they have civil rights. They should be respected, and not physically or emotionally harmed. Taking their phone away is not freaking violating their civil rights. How are they going to learn to follow normal, reasonable rules as adults when no one can enforce them when they are CHILDREN? |
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Don't shoot the messenger folks. This is in fact why public schools have more trouble with rules than private schools.
"As the U.S. Supreme Court once declared, students do not "shed their constitutional rights when they enter the schoolhouse door."" https://education.findlaw.com/student-rights.html https://www.aclu.org/blog/juvenile-justice/student-rights-school-six-things-you-need-know |
| No one is saying that misbehaving children should lose their constitutional rights. We are asserting that misbehaving children need to respect the constitutional rights of others. No one gets a free pass to go stomping on someone else's rights and, if they do violate someone's rights, then there needs to be an appropriate consequence. |