Wife takes care of the 'other woman', ends her DH's affair and his marriage in one evening

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Anonymous wrote:What a waste of two lives.

Thing is, my initial reaction was to feel bad for the cheating husband. Because clearly his wife whom he cheated on was crazy enough to murder and commit suicide, so she must have been crazy to live with. Sane people don't react this way. Sort of like how while I normally feel bad for the laid off postal worker, once he goes postal, you start to consider that the post office had a good reason to fire him.

Yep.

This.

Nope. Going postal is a term because working for the postal office was so toxic people were killing people. They changed the way they do things and now, no postal workers "go postal"

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Anonymous wrote:What a waste of two lives.

Thing is, my initial reaction was to feel bad for the cheating husband. Because clearly his wife whom he cheated on was crazy enough to murder and commit suicide, so she must have been crazy to live with. Sane people don't react this way. Sort of like how while I normally feel bad for the laid off postal worker, once he goes postal, you start to consider that the post office had a good reason to fire him.

Yep.

This.

How do you know what really went on in that marriage? He might have been mentally cruel and cheated before but she took him back. Every person has a breaking point.

Sorry, but anyone who goes through a murder-suicide scheme is 99.5% likely to also be very difficult to be married to and live with. People aren't just spur of the moment crazy; there's lot of other craziness happening behind closed doors. I can safely say that me and my wife don't have that "breaking point." I know for a fact that she has too much self-respect.

How well does anyone ever really know another person?

+1

People claiming 99% anything are easily fooled.

[Anonymous]

Often couples with no children have a stronger bond and codependency because they're each other's only family...

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Anonymous wrote:What a waste of two lives.

Thing is, my initial reaction was to feel bad for the cheating husband. Because clearly his wife whom he cheated on was crazy enough to murder and commit suicide, so she must have been crazy to live with. Sane people don't react this way. Sort of like how while I normally feel bad for the laid off postal worker, once he goes postal, you start to consider that the post office had a good reason to fire him.

Yep.

This.

How do you know what really went on in that marriage? He might have been mentally cruel and cheated before but she took him back. Every person has a breaking point.

Sorry, but anyone who goes through a murder-suicide scheme is 99.5% likely to also be very difficult to be married to and live with. People aren't just spur of the moment crazy; there's lot of other craziness happening behind closed doors. I can safely say that me and my wife don't have that "breaking point." I know for a fact that she has too much self-respect.

How well does anyone ever really know another person?

+1

People claiming 99% anything are easily fooled.

So many men that cheat subject their victim to gaslighting. It's a little game for them. People do the crime but they don't want to go the time.

The H is just as guilty for putting theses wheels in motion.

If the H was stable and the wife crazy he could have divorced her and moved on. No kids, FFS divorce.

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Anonymous wrote:OP is sick. Several of my friends knew Meredith personally as the dedicated community leader and activist she was. A tragedy at the hands of evil.

I mean, of course adultery does not warrant the death penalty. But, let's also not cast her as completely blameless in this whole scenario. There's room for nuance here.

Meredith could not help that she met her soulmate ( who happened to be married) and had to jump into bed with him. It was passion and romance and forbidden love.

You are joking, right?

[Anonymous]

Jennair looked way, way better with long hair. She should never have cut her hair short. That's probably what drove him to cheat and set this whole tragedy in motion.

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There is a real stigma to divorce and being a single. Just search this forum for the misogynistic, cat-lady, spinster comments from people.

Apparently, the wife did not want a divorce and did not want the mistress to have her husband.

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Anonymous wrote:Jennair looked way, way better with long hair. She should never have cut her hair short. That's probably what drove him to cheat and set this whole tragedy in motion.

How do you know which photo is the most current. I would not assume a linkedin photo was current.

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Anonymous wrote:Is that a threat, OP? Do you have a gun?

Are you someone's mistress?

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I can't get over the fact that she was named after a brand of home appliances.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jenn-Air
https://jennair.com/

[Anonymous]

OW had low self esteem, I mean look at thise eyebrows!

[Anonymous]

OW was a Republican activist.
Wife has crazy eyes.
Husband is hot.

[Anonymous]

Women are vindictive. That's another reason not to mess with someone else's husband. No one can afford to have an enemy for life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OW was a Republican activist.
Wife has crazy eyes.
Husband is hot.

He's a good looking guy who spends time on his appearance, but more in an All-American way.

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Anonymous wrote:When were the texts sent and why wasn't 911 immediately called?

This is terrible. Why didn’t he call 911 or at least call and warn the mistress?

I thought I read he was waiting for Meredith at a restaurant, they had plans to eat dinner together (a date). When she didn’t show up, he gave up waiting and drove to her house. Which makes it even weirder that if he had received threats from his wife he didn’t call 911 all that time. Scumbag.