Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Recently ended relationship, on the way out I asked if we could just have sex occasionally (very hot sex, great sexual chemistry). He was offended at my suggestion! Why?

May be he was doing most of the work in bed and it was only good for you?

I'm not trying to be negative or insult you but it is one of the possibilities.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He doesn’t want anything to do with you.

+1

[Anonymous]

He wants more than just your body. He wants your heart, soul, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Recently ended relationship, on the way out I asked if we could just have sex occasionally (very hot sex, great sexual chemistry). He was offended at my suggestion! Why?

Ask him. Why query the folks on DCUM with its "embarrassment of sexless husbands/wives" as you so animatedly opined.

Well, I did ask him, and he said "I'm not just trying to get laid. Love is the most important thing to me." I think he knows we're too enmeshed to have a true effective FWB arrangement anyway.

It's just my vagina talking. I'm horny. And now I have to go track down some new dud/stud. Gah.

Exactly. His feelings for you are too deep to just have NSA sex while you bone other people and get emotionally involved with them

[Anonymous]

OP here. So, we did end up having sex a couple of times but there are too many feelings (on my end at least) to have a casual cut-and-dry relationship. Now we are not in contact.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. So, we did end up having sex a couple of times but there are too many feelings (on my end at least) to have a casual cut-and-dry relationship. Now we are not in contact.

Ok, keep it moving. Chin up, girl.