Why wouldn't a man want just a sexual relationship?
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Anonymous
| Maybe what you thought was great sex was in fact blah from his POV |
Anonymous
| he was an idiot |
Anonymous
| When I was single, I turned down opportunity for just sex after the relationship ended. It wasn't worth the headache, plus I was always skeptical it would stay just sex and she would be ok with me also sleeping and dating others. |
Anonymous
| OP, do you have any pride or self esteem? Was he the only man that you could get? |
Anonymous
| who dumped who? |
Anonymous
| Because the relationship is over and he's not some stud for you to mount at will? |
Anonymous
Sex is easy to find. Good sex less so. Good sex with someone you know and trust? Even more rare. |
Anonymous
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1. He doesn't Want you
2. He doesn’t believe you can do just FWB 3. He can get more from someone else |
Anonymous
| Let me take a guess... his turning down the sex caused your self esteem to take a hit, didn't it? You cheapened yourself by offering to stay connected to him at any cost. He in turn saw it for what it was and decided your sex was not worth the hassle. Double whammy |
Anonymous
| Maybe he likes you and like some of us guys, when it’s done it’s done. |
Anonymous
| OP here. I'm just surprised by his attitude. I know he had done similar in the past (continued sleeping with exes). Sex was really really good. I mean, come on! |
Anonymous
Just because he's done it in the past doesn't mean he's required to do it with you. |
Anonymous
Yeah, thanks, I know. |
Anonymous
| I feel awkward have sex outside of an established relationship. I know others could care less but just not my thing. |
Anonymous
| The quality of the sex was less than the hassle of dealing with you, it's pretty simple. |