| I'm impressed your husband switched over to Maryland plates so quickly. I would have clung to the DC address for dear life until I was fully settled someplace new. |
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OP here. The accusations of racist motivation with no basis in fact are amusing. We are what some of you so colorfully characterized as "brown people". The whole point of living EOTP is to be around our fellow "brown people", not to have a bigger house (it’s just the three of us). I’d like my daughter to be around "brown children" at school too (so no "ewww", sorry), but not at the expense of her education. The fact that some of you translated "good public school" into "no brown children" is all on you.
Thanks for those who posted thoughtful answers, you brought up several issues I hadn’t considered. We may end up looking at alternatives as a result. |
People should be mad, and cheaters should be ashamed. The cheaters like to pretend that it makes particular sense for them for some reason -- that they are a special, deserving case. And they like to pretend like it affects no one else, but it does. |
This really isn't making you look any better. |
Exactly. |
Once you have a cheater's mindset, you have to not care at all how you look on a message board. Just think about what will matter to get away with the ruse. For instance, I would go for Eaton or Hearst where I could blend in with the other OOB families. Ironically, my next choice would be Janney, where I would hope the school size would help me get lost in the crowd. (Not many apts. in bound for Janney, but they do exist). |
This is untrue. I am moving my private school dc to public (3rd grade) and have been told they are visiting. |
And you can decline. Or set up the visit at a coffee shop. Home visits are to develop relationships with teachers. They are not for residency or boundary checks. If the family can't produce documents or there are issues with residency, the registrar and admin deal with it, not the teachers. |
I really think you are ridiculous. I live EotP and am moving my child to public school because she isn’t happy at her private. I think she will be the only white kid in her grade. I don’t have an issue with this. You’re a racist/bigot and should probably just move. I don’t understand your thought process. |
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So, OP, you don’t want to sacrifice her education for diversity’s sake? How would you explain to her about lying about where you live or the dislike you feel for the families she goes to school with? Would you decline play dates and party invites so she isn’t exposed to the wrong crowd? Would you tell other parents at school events that you are avoiding their neighborhood but are happy to take advantage of the school where they live? Are you allowed because you are brown?
Just a few more issues for you to consider. |
Oh didn’t know it was optional. I am fine with them coming over. |
Our neighbors are technically cheaters. They moved OOB, and nextdoor, a few years ago and never told their principal, while renting out house #1. They're also the last people we'd turn in. They're the kind of people who patiently lobby the ANC and DDOT to get a disastrous sidewalk changed until they get results. They're an asset to the neighborhood, paying property tax on 2 houses (a few blocks apart) they've fixed up beautifully over many years. I'm not going to judge. |
Definition: second PP currently doing this. |
Ugh. They sound like the kind of people who think that all of public works need to be specifically catered towards them. That said, apparently what they did is now kosher, if what people said upthread is correct. |
| No, they're the kind of "difficult" people willing to do the research to find out that barely competent DDOT didn't even have a record of the badly degraded sidewalks in question. I like a constructive and civil minded squeaky wheel. They've settled in the neighborhood, and contributed meaningfully to it. I don't think it's anybody's business where they sleep or which public schools they use but their own. Ugh, holier than thou posters. |