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I love it every time this topic comes up because it makes people so mad.
Clearly based on the school numbers, many people are getting away with it. |
Sounds like you should take your issues with these parents up with them directly, rather than complaining about them here. OP asked about renting vs. occupying for IB residency purposes, not your dislike of suspected residency cheaters you can't stand. Petty. |
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And don't forget: "I pay income taxes, but I don't want to pay the (value-based) property taxes in the neighborhood I want my kid to go to school. High housing costs and taxes can be shouldered by lesser people than me." |
Ok this one isn't quite fair. The OP would be paying property taxes on her gentrifier neighborhood house, and property taxes on the apartment indirectly, through her rent checks. |
PP again. Not sure why you're getting defensive? They're boundary cheaters. It shouldn't matter why they're being reported if they're boundary cheaters. The system can then work out whether the report is valid. I responded that these are difficult, fractious people because I was asked the question. But they're listing their address as a property that they don't and haven't ever lived in--that's the main point. |
| People who I don't like but will send my kids to school with their kids because I want my kids to benefit by being in the classroom with their kids. But I don't like them. |
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DCPS investigated us last year WotP and we were cleared the next day (in 10 minutes).
The investigator showed us the complaint letter (personal info not blacked out), so we know who complained. We've had a little fun making the author squirm ("Hello! So nice to see you!") around the school from time to time. If you don't own in-boundary real estate, I wouldn't get creative about residency, not under the current mayor. You'd be taking on a lot of stress with little to fall back on if the arrangement blew up in your face. |
Why were you fingered? |
| Note to 11:46: you never forfeit your right to complain on an anonymous message board. That's their allure. |
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When parents complain about address cheaters on DCUM, they invariably present the situation as though they're in command of all the facts. But they never are.
Wouldn't be surprised if the alleged address cheaters consider you a difficult person in the school community, but have the good grace to keep that thought to themselves. OP, see the potential for whispering campaigns if your residency situation isn't above board? Not worth it for that reason alone. |
HAHAHA. Yeah, it is definitely not worth 4K a month just because some hen might whisper about you and be too chickenshit to do anything about it. |
We separated in the middle of the school year, one of us moved to MD, and the child began moving between us. A parent who doesn't know us very well claimed we were address cheaters (took pictures of dad's MD plate car at pick up). We brought extra residency docs and the DCPS investigator cleared us on the spot, in her office. Good it happened actually, because we got the word around that we were investigated, and cleared, and our critics moved on to new targets. Not a great time in our lives but we've put it all behind us (did not divorce). |