Getting Married in 2 months....but I love someone else I can't have

[Anonymous]

two months is plenty of time to end it. Much less hassle than a divorce, much less painful.

I have a friend who was broken up with 3 weeks before the wedding. Terrible at the time, blessing in disguise. she married someone better for her and was glad not to have married a guy who wasn't entirely sure.

I tend to think that the obsession you have with this other woman will fade once you break up with your fiance. I believe you are creating drama because you dont want to get married. You need some therapy and maturity. Please the kindest thing you can do to your fiance is to put off the wedding;

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:two months is plenty of time to end it. Much less hassle than a divorce, much less painful.

I have a friend who was broken up with 3 weeks before the wedding. Terrible at the time, blessing in disguise. she married someone better for her and was glad not to have married a guy who wasn't entirely sure.

I tend to think that the obsession you have with this other woman will fade once you break up with your fiance. I believe you are creating drama because you dont want to get married. You need some therapy and maturity. Please the kindest thing you can do to your fiance is to put off the wedding;

I agree with this, maybe she knows maybe she doesn't but you are acting out for some reason. If you find yourself reaching out to this person more and more as wedding gets closer, probably not a hard leap that it is you having some anxiety about getting married.