Yes that's complete bs. They should not allow average children to waste their time with these people. If you can't count to 100 By then you should be taken out of the general population. |
As cited in the prior post -- there are VA colleges that don't require either the SAT or ACT. |
Because we are all paying to educate ALL of the kids, including the special ones, not to just throw more money at your kids. Your children are in one of the most generously funded schools in the nation. |
This isn't about me wanting more money thrown at my kids. My kids all got into AAP and are getting a fine education. However, my kids were in Gen Ed through 2nd grade, so I know what the PPs are talking about. FCPS is overall generously funded, but in many cases is falling short when it comes to regular Gen Ed kids. You haven't experienced the disparity in allocation of resources and the impact on the quality of education regular kids get in some FCPS, so you really have no basis for calling concerned parents morons. Send your kids to one of those schools for a year and then come back and comment. |
Our DD was going to be bad parochial school. Didn't end up mattering because she is not a top student in high school. Most kids - unless they are special in some way - don't need a ton of instruction at younger ages. A lot of it is developmental. What did matter was no screen time until high school basically and much time spent doing hands on things and also reading. Your children will learn most of what they need to learn through play, experience and reading at these ages. Encourage outside reading - get them anything that they find fun and interesting and encourage reading (Captain Underpants, something about cars - anything). Don't have them staring at screens all the time doing dumb social media stuff and have them playing with friends and out in the neighborhood interacting with other children and problem solving. Video games aren't the worst way to spend some time but in moderation. Sign them up for one or two educational summer camps a year. Something involving science or building something or zoo camp or programming or something. The rest of the time they can just have fun but sign them up for something educational for some of the weeks. What you won't ever get in public school is apparently a great writing curriculum. I don't know why, but if you have a battle to pick you might pick that at least once it's middle school time. Also by middle school a strong math program is needed. And by strong math program I don't mean what the public schools do which is accelerate kids into higher level math before they are ready just to show on paper that they are learning at a high level (they are not and often they are then unprepared for high school math and fail). By strong math program I mean a good foundation in the basics that will eventually be a good foundation to learning higher level math like geometry and calculus. The thing is is that I'm not sure you're ever going to get a good educational foundation for your kids in the public schools because they don't always seem to know what they are doing. The bright ones do fine because they are bright and they learn on their own (or in the case of some public schools having gifted programs for them). The schools spend time with the SPED kids and the ESOL kids early on because they understand that they don't understand the basics and they spend time teaching them those basics. After that those kids are left to flounder as well. They don't ever seem to understand how to educate the middle of the pack but that's not because there are SPED kids or ESOL kids or Gifted kids or that they don't have enough money - it's because they don't care. I have a SPED kid and they don't care or understand how to teach anything but some basics and we have had to deal with that. I can't see them fixing that ever - the public schools just aren't that good even at their best. I would pick one aspect of school that you want to see get better - such as more rigorous match teaching or teaching writing skills - and try to get that changed. Or, take the kids to Kumon... |
OUr DD is NOW a top student in high school despite her crappy early parochial school years of learning nothing. There were large classes, bad teachers (they hired friends and kept the bad teachers - offering no criticism of their teaching so they could get better and no training other than some pats on the back and social events) and nothing substantial was taught for years. But DD progressed anyway because she read things outside of class, we took her to things like museums and cooked and gardened and got her playdates and did those fun science kits in a box and for her that was enough. She is a crazy strong student. She was sent to much better schools for middle school and high school. So, if you see that the schools are not going to improve and you can't change them you might consider fleeing by middle school. |
| ^ thanks for writing. A lot of good insight. |
You mean the fact that I haven't chosen to break immigration laws? Yeah, what was I thinking?? And before you go off about people wanting a better life for themselves, would you let strangers just walk into your home and take from your fridge and pantry, just because they wanted a chance at good food that you took the trouble to pick out and pay for? |
You don't have to live here. |
| this is the concern; "you don't have to live here" - and when the parents of 'regular kids' don't want to live here, who pays? The middle class white families are moving - to Loudoun. |
+1000 |
+1000 PP is actually the moron here. |
Regarding the bolded, this is just utter B.S. My kids are in Gen Ed, and I and all of their friends' parents are extremely involved at school, as well as supplementing at home, and always have been. What a stupid statement. |
Absolutely agree. |
| Not from this area but why do they have these gifted centers? If there are so many kids in them, can't they just have one gifted class per grade at their own school? That's what my ES did. |