I don't want to go on vacation with my husband

[Anonymous]

Your gift to each other is a trip which you wanted your husband to plan as a gift to you? I don’t understand. Maybe your gift to him could be to send him by himself.

[Anonymous]

OP thats how I feel about forced "date nights" too much pressure to feel connected. DH is not a good conversationalist at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So happy to see I’m not alone in NOT wanting to go with my husband. He’s difficult, plans nothing, needs 2hr nap everyday day if we’re hiking so we miss out on sunset bike rides, beach strolls etc. I have to plan every detail and when I try to discuss with him he can barely pay attention and can’t focus, doesn’t act excited…He asked why we have to go Wed to Wed not Sunday to Sunday well I said “I texted you and explained flight and hotel prices” His narcissistic personality took that as me patronizing him!! I’d rather go with anyone other than him! Sure it’s a red flag and yes I should have gotten out years ago.

Same here.

I hate traveling with him now. He can’t hold a conversation on anything but his work. He never helps pack or care for their before, during or after. He can’t plan jack. And it’s like he can’t see danger and has zero common sense, eg, but let’s see if the ATV can go straight up this cliff by the ocean; let’s really see if me and the 5 yo can or cannot snorkel in the rip tide.

Dumb and dumber

I am guy and see these red flags within two minutes of talking to husband of one of DWs friends. They were like this before you married them why are you surprised. This behavior or mentality didn’t just show up one day.

I sometimes do too. I just assume they are Aspergers, but I still for sorry for the wife and kids. They're probably ignored all the time by him.

[Anonymous]

B ring a good book or two ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your gift to each other is a trip which you wanted your husband to plan as a gift to you? I don’t understand. Maybe your gift to him could be to send him by himself.

You are responding to an 8-year-old post.

[Anonymous]

You should talk to him about your feelings. I'm sure he feels the same way!