What is one thing your SO doesn't know about you?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:That I have suicidal thoughts pretty often - and it's partly because I feel trapped in our marriage, and that is because I'm afraid if I walk away I'll be alone forever.

If you are a woman it would be impossible to be alone forever. There is always a horndog or some needy, desperate guy out there.

Untrue. I'm almost 40 and alone. And despite wanting to be desired, I have standards. Not ridiculous ones, but standards.

[Anonymous]

That I went through a serious "whore phase" before we met. Slept with more folks than I should have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I have suicidal thoughts pretty often - and it's partly because I feel trapped in our marriage, and that is because I'm afraid if I walk away I'll be alone forever.

If you are a woman it would be impossible to be alone forever. There is always a horndog or some needy, desperate guy out there.

Untrue. I'm almost 40 and alone. And despite wanting to be desired, I have standards. Not ridiculous ones, but standards.

Oh come now, you don't need to be alone -- there is an obese, balding, creepy loser somewhere in the world who is just right for you!

[Anonymous]

I stalk him.... and everyone in his life.

I've had over 200 lovers
Something really bad happened to him a few years ago and I made it look like someone else did it; it was me. He hates that person to this day

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I stalk him.... and everyone in his life.

I've had over 200 lovers
Something really bad happened to him a few years ago and I made it look like someone else did it; it was me. He hates that person to this day

WOW you sound like a psychopath.

[Anonymous]

I'm planning my own retirement and it doesn't include you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I stalk him.... and everyone in his life.

I've had over 200 lovers
Something really bad happened to him a few years ago and I made it look like someone else did it; it was me. He hates that person to this day

WOW you sound like a psychopath.

I probably am.....that's a whole other thread

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How many men I've slept with.

I have it pretty much figured out, not that I have spent a lot of time thinking about it. In all honestly, I love you and it doesn't concern me in the least.

Even though many of them were better lovers, more creative and less inhibited, and that I think of them when we're together?

That's evil. Couples with good sex lives are able to communicate their wants and needs.

I told him that I wanted a particular type of sex, and he point blank told me he wouldn't give it to me, "because I didn't used to like it." So the solution is what?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How many men I've slept with.

I have it pretty much figured out, not that I have spent a lot of time thinking about it. In all honestly, I love you and it doesn't concern me in the least.

Even though many of them were better lovers, more creative and less inhibited, and that I think of them when we're together?

If you are unable to communicate what your husband needs to do to be "better" / "more creative" / "less inhibited" then that's your fault, not his.

I communicated, all right, and was shut down. He's a repressed Catholic and it's missionary or nothing else, practically. He told me he was more open when we were dating, and pretended to be, somewhat. After the wedding, his true colors came out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have had an AP for the past year.

Same here.

what is AP?

Affair Partner

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I stalk him.... and everyone in his life.

I've had over 200 lovers
Something really bad happened to him a few years ago and I made it look like someone else did it; it was me. He hates that person to this day

I am extremely curious about this. What "happened" to him? Is this real or are you channeling Gone Girl?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm planning my own retirement and it doesn't include you.

Same here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I can't place on a map all of the states of the United States of America.

Many cannot!

[Anonymous]

I stalk his ex girlfriend a lot and feel threatened by how beautiful and amazing she appears to be. She is also dating a new guy who is a couple of notches above my dh in the looks department. So, she upgraded, I guess.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I have suicidal thoughts pretty often - and it's partly because I feel trapped in our marriage, and that is because I'm afraid if I walk away I'll be alone forever.

If you are a woman it would be impossible to be alone forever. There is always a horndog or some needy, desperate guy out there.

Untrue. I'm almost 40 and alone. And despite wanting to be desired, I have standards. Not ridiculous ones, but standards.

Oh come now, you don't need to be alone -- there is an obese, balding, creepy loser somewhere in the world who is just right for you!

Honestly - they are spoken for. My friend divorced just such a dude and he immediately had a girlfriend. Unbelievable.