Yes, per the data another PP posted, even without fertility drugs or IVF, a late-30s woman attempting to get pregnant is far more likely to succeed than fail. |
I agree. I hate that bitchy coach on Dallas Cowboy cheerleader show, but god is she hot. |
I'm early 30s and have been concerned about dating men 40+ for this reason as have a couple of gfs in their late 20s. I don't think the information is widespread, however. |
And.. She's 51. Anybody can copy her or others like her. No excuse for being lazy about what can most easily get what you want. |
Not saying that your overall point doesn't hold some validity but I'm guessing the fact that there are a lot more female nurses than male nurses & female teachers than male teachers factors into this, as well. |
Of course but it's all endogenous, right? I mean part of the reason there are few male nurses isn't because the job doesn't pay well. It's a pretty solid job. But it isn't "high status" such that women would be lining up to date nurses. Since men will do whatever it takes to attract a good looking female who sets the price in the sex/dating market they will go for jobs where they can exploit female hypergamy. I'm an odd duck. I personally love intellectual ambitious women, but most dudes who are lawyers or doctors would rate attractiveness/eagerness to have sex/cheerfulness as a trifecta of importance that far outpaces whether a woman is a middle class employee or a big law person. |
I don't think a woman in her 30s is old, but most of the men I knew in their 20s were still acting like boys. By the time most women are 30, they've had a decade of acting like grown-ups. |
I can see the difference in myself at 20 and at 30 and now at 37. I see it in my husband too, but the aging process in men is culturally considered "handsome" while historically and even within older great literature, a woman is considered most desirable when she looks youthful--not womanly.
Female Young= desirable Womanly= matronly Male young= immature, boyish Man=handsome, desirable |
There's some truth to this, but most men don't age like George Clooney. Most older men are not handsome. It's just that women are hypergamous toward wealth and status. If a 60 year old man is a VP who drives a Range Rover and has a vacation house in the Cayman Islands women swoon not because he looks like Chris Hemsworth naked. But rather because she values those things and they turn her on. Most men, in contrast, would rather eat at Olive Garden with a chick who has the ass of a 21 year old and go home have wild sex then watch netflix than go to the fancy timeshare owned by one of the Golden Girls (Carly Fiorina or Meg Whitman). |
Women 18-30 (maybe 35 for some) have the upper hand in dating. Men have the upper hand for roughly the same amount of time (mid 30s to early 50s). Obviously, individuals vary.
By about 55, we're all old farts. |
This is so true being womanly isn't considered attractive but being manly is. |
Never lose being feminine (not womanly) see NFL cheerleader comment above . |
The thing that people forget is that all the data on infertility is compiled based on women who have infertility issues. The women who are having babies naturally at that age on the first or second try don't go to Shady Grove etc, they don't need to. |
Not true. Look to Hollywood or pop stars for track record of marital happiness of very hot people. They divorce oftener than anyone. |
There are tons of women who conceive in their late 30's and early 40's who get help but did not tell anyone. Unless you are see their medical records you don't know. |