Why are women in their 30s considered old and men are not?

Anonymous
Developmental Stages for Men:

Boys will be Boys! Age 0-17
Loveable Screwup Who Needs Some Patience, Age 18-39
Dignified Adult, Age 40-100

Developmental Stages for Women

Good Little Helper, Age 0-22
Hot and Marriageable, Age 22-29
Dealer's Choice: Bitter Spinster or Your Mom, Age 30-100

Questions? It's very clear.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Developmental Stages for Men:

Boys will be Boys! Age 0-17
Loveable Screwup Who Needs Some Patience, Age 18-39
Dignified Adult, Age 40-100

Developmental Stages for Women

Good Little Helper, Age 0-22
Hot and Marriageable, Age 22-29
Dealer's Choice: Bitter Spinster or Your Mom, Age 30-100

Questions? It's very clear.


This^. It’s societal conditioning, not physical or mental limitation. What’s sad is women themselves infantilizing men (their sons and grandsons) and using delayed prefrontal cortex development as their defense. Let them grow and become independent. We expect more and early from women, hence they mature faster. Treat them same and give similar environment, they’ll mature at equal rate.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Developmental Stages for Men:

Boys will be Boys! Age 0-17
Loveable Screwup Who Needs Some Patience, Age 18-39
Dignified Adult, Age 40-100

Developmental Stages for Women

Good Little Helper, Age 0-22
Hot and Marriageable, Age 22-29
Dealer's Choice: Bitter Spinster or Your Mom, Age 30-100

Questions? It's very clear.


+1
Anonymous
OP you must be very young!

No one in their 30s is considered old, especially women. It's a mantra contrived by many men to try and keep women in their place. Or simply to demean them. It angers some of the male population that women can choose to have a man or not. Women in reality have many more choices than men today.

Whoever is telling you women are old by 30 is one you need to get away from imo.
Anonymous
No one says women are old in their 30's except for emotionally immature men who have issues.

Women are not old in their 30's, they simply aren't. This is created by men to keep women insecure. It is a very limited attitude to have.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:what a bunch of clowns on this thread. bozo central.


That's what I was thinking.
Anonymous
I guess anyone in their 30’s is old for people under 30 and young for people over 40, gender is irrelevant.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m not sure if it’s a fertility thing. I know many women in their 30s who got pregnant on the “first try” with no assistance. Myself included.

Everyone is different.

Some women look old in their mid to late 20s while others look young into their 50s. It just depends.


+1 pregnant at 39 first try. I could have kids until 44 I’m sure—I’m still ovulating at 51. Fertility panic led me to marry the wrong man and I regret it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men are attracted to women primarily on physical attractiveness. All else being equal, men find women most attractive in the early 20s-early 30s range (obviously exceptions).

Women are attracted to men based on power, "ambition", money, , confidence, status and of course physical appearances which often go as much to how he wears a suit more than if he has a six pack. It takes men years of career success to achieve these things.


Men should marry earlier but society should weigh them for their character, intelligence and work habits, not for their income and assets.


Okay but it’s not like time freezes then. You then are married to the person ever after and you both age anyway.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:what a bunch of clowns on this thread. bozo central.


That's what I was thinking.


Yup. Only clowns think this way and entertain people who think this way.
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