Saw friend's husband out with another woman

[Anonymous]

For instance, to use OP's example- she isn't telling. Which is good because for whatever reason, even though it seems like she and her husband are separated, she hasn't told her friends. So let's say you see a friend's husband out and tell her and she's now forced to tell you they separated on YOUR forced timeline. Or she says nothing and you continue on thinking she's being a fool whose husband is cheating. It's not fair to dictate how someone handles their own life and by forcing information on them, you are. I'm glad OP isn't telling.

[Anonymous]

rat him out!

[Anonymous]

How abt calling dw. Going out for lunch and really just catching up. Ask directly how they're doing. Ask directly why we habent seen eachother. Be a friend.

[Anonymous]

OOps he got caught.

I bet ya he is already planning ahead on what he is going to tell his wife about seeing you when he was with this other lady.

He probably has started bashing your character so that if you DO spill the beans to your friend, she will already be jaded against you.

If you choose you can let her know, but know this will not go over very well.

He will of course deny, deny and oh...Did I mention deny it all?? He will claim he's never been in that part of town, that perhaps you saw someone who resembled him, yada yada yada YAWN.

It will be up to your friend who she believes, but my gut tells me she will question you vs. her scumbag hubby.

Are you willing to take this risk on the friendship solely for doing the right thing?

Because...No good deed goes unpunished....

[Anonymous]

A guy can't even get a friggin egg roll without the neighborhood busy body sticking her nose in things anymore.

[Anonymous]

What restaurant is it? The Chinese restaurants near me are not that great and I am looking for a good one. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

If I were the wife, I would want to know. And I wouldn't care if it were from an acquaintance. I wouldn't want to be the last one to know, and I certainly wouldn't want to waste my time on a cheater.

[Anonymous]

OP here. If anyone cares, the couple is recently separated. I saw the dad recently and he told me that they split up over the summer. That explains why we haven't seen them over the summer. They are just starting to tell people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. If anyone cares, the couple is recently separated. I saw the dad recently and he told me that they split up over the summer. That explains why we haven't seen them over the summer. They are just starting to tell people.

Did you see the OW after their split?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. If anyone cares, the couple is recently separated. I saw the dad recently and he told me that they split up over the summer. That explains why we haven't seen them over the summer. They are just starting to tell people.

Did you see the OW after their split?

They split in the summer and I saw my friend's husband in September so yes, after the split. I have no idea why they split.