This doesn't even make sense as a rational for trashing the Christian religion. You're trashing the Christian religion, so own it. |
| NP. Like others here, I find the outpouring of sympathy and forgiveness inspiring instead of discouraging. Especially the forgiveness, which is so hard yet so fundamental to their faith. |
Satan lol |
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Yep it's gotta be Satan at work. That's the only logical explanation here.
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| It appears the answer is no. Can we move on from the Christian bashing now? |
How is questioning a belief by asking for evidence considered bashing? Prove to me, for example, that Satan is alive and kicking. |
It's bashing when it's not relevant to the question asked. |
It's far more worthy of respect for someone who confronted the tragedy, go through the phases of grief, and eventually come to acceptance and forgiveness, than it is for the baseless mantra of "God teaches us to forgive". The later involves minimal effort, it is not a virtue to blindly accept how one should feel. In fact it is slavery of the mind, to relinquish control of your rationality, to isolate your human emotions, and to believe that it is so becomes some authority told you it is so. |
depends on how you define relevant in this case, no? What is faith? How can you doubt something that's not based on evidence? Are these questions in the "bashing" category? |
LOL? The fact you call it minimal effort proves you have no idea how it works. |
It takes a lot of effort to say something that is so counter-intuitive to the anger and hurt and confusion and trauma that a decent, normal person understandably feels when a loved one is brutally murdered by a madman in a church during Bible study. Atheists can't imagine the mental anguish it takes for a Christian to do something like that, but Christians know they are doing it because God teaches them that this is the right things to do. They don't worry about their own feelings -- that would be selfish. They think about what God wants and they know that it is forgiving thine enemies - not later once you've worked it through psychologically, but as soon as possible after the heinous act. They know that like their loved ones who were so horribly taken from them, they will be facing God some day and God will reward them for doing the right thing at this extremely difficult moment of their lives. |
This is a ridiculous line of reasoning that is false upon examination. What is harder: 1. You must accept and forgive, and you must come to this conclusion on your own, dealing with your roiling feelings of grief, anger at the senselessness, disbelief that the unlikely has indeed happened, questioning why bad things happen to good people, and a natural urge to exact revenge. You must deal with all of this, with no mental crutch, and realize that despite the tragedy and your suffering, that man is basically good, and that behaving as a good person means accepting the tragedy moving on. 2. You must accept and forgive, because God has a plan and this is all a part of it. You may not understand it, but you must have faith that this is for the greater good. Your loved ones are in heaven, they are with Jesus now. Death is not permanent, this life is only a test. You'll see them again when you move on from this life to the next. Oh I wish it was as simple as option number 2. But I am not going to surrender my intelligence just so that I can be comfortably numb. |
The victims' relatives weren't chanting mantras of "God teaches us to forgive." They were saying "I forgive." Can you see the difference? Like others here have said, "I forgive" is a difficult statement to make when for many people the natural first impulse is to seek retaliation. It may take time for them to work towards true forgiveness. But thank goodness that not everybody is looking for pity and retribution. Major respect. |
2. You must accept and forgive, because God has a plan and this is all a part of it. You may not understand it, but you must have faith that this is for the greater good. Your loved ones are in heaven, they are with Jesus now. Death is not permanent, this life is only a test. You'll see them again when you move on from this life to the next. Oh I wish it was as simple as option number 2. But I am not going to surrender my intelligence just so that I can be comfortably numb. Huh? You don't understand humans, human nature, or the nature of belief. You think God just plops forgiveness and acceptance into the passive believers' brains? Or that just by chanting what you call "some mantra" or "a crutch" about forgiveness and acceptance and heaven, that all the pain, anger, disbelief and urges for revenge will just go away? Don't be ridiculous. Of course believers have to work on their own deal with roiling feelings of grief, anger at the senselessness, disbelief that the unlikely has indeed happened, questioning why bad things happen to good people, and a natural urge to exact revenge. Add to this, bellievers may have to deal with the challenge to faith that OP is clearly dying to document but hasn't succeeded in doing. Also: plenty of brillian folks believe in #2 without surrenduring their intelligence. On the other hand, your poor reasoning skills... oh, never mind. |