Car Accident/So Angry at My DH

[Anonymous]

Divorce him, but not over the accident. It's ok to be alone and not have to deal with an idiot DH.
It's not hard to learn how to drive ( I bet the car is automatic). He probably was blabbing too much and made her crash.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I feel for you! A year ago my H who is from Europe finally decided to learn to drive (because I wasn't cheerful enough when having to drive him around). He bought a $5k jalopy and of course it never occurred to me to get collision coverage.
This idiot decided to go for a 10 hour road trip about a month after he got his DL. He also was too cheap to take proper lessons, and barely passed the test.
Just like your H, he hit a tree on the way back, about 4 hours away. We are still paying some medical bills (luckily most was covered by his insurance and his company covered some), 5k went down the drain, he got a new car we could not really afford and he rear ended someone very soon after, so our insurance rates are now triple what we used to pay for my car, a very modest Toyota.
And this jerk used to tell me how much I spend on driving school and how much I spent on the car.
So oh yes I feel ya!!!

Do you have problems with reading comprehension? Th daughter not her father crashed the car.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get your mind wrapped around the fact that he's buying another car. Maybe you guys can discuss how new it will be, but you're setting yourself up to be mad if you somehow think he's not gonna buy another car.
You say you grew up poor but are you now? Pull yourself together. Your daughter feels bad/guilty enough, she doesn't need you and her Dad fighting over this!

I Have sent hI'm several links for new cars, all of which he says are too expensive. He is so f**king cheap. Just wants to buy what he calls "safe, affordable transportation." He says he can get new sedan like a VW Jetta that is rated well for safety for about $16K and that is what he wants to spend. I showed him a listing for a used GLK for $22K and he says: he doesn't want an SUV, he doesn't want a Mercedes and he doesn'T want to spend more than $20K and that the GLK is not safety rated for a teen driver by the IIHS.

He is like his parents! Cheap they drove crappy American or Japanese cars.

Also, his Mom wrote me back saying I should have compassion for him, but I never get it from him or from his parents.

[Anonymous]

OP, you just contradicted everything you said about being poor growing up and hating to spend money. Go away stupid troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get your mind wrapped around the fact that he's buying another car. Maybe you guys can discuss how new it will be, but you're setting yourself up to be mad if you somehow think he's not gonna buy another car.
You say you grew up poor but are you now? Pull yourself together. Your daughter feels bad/guilty enough, she doesn't need you and her Dad fighting over this!

I Have sent hI'm several links for new cars, all of which he says are too expensive. He is so f**king cheap. Just wants to buy what he calls "safe, affordable transportation." He says he can get new sedan like a VW Jetta that is rated well for safety for about $16K and that is what he wants to spend. I showed him a listing for a used GLK for $22K and he says: he doesn't want an SUV, he doesn't want a Mercedes and he doesn'T want to spend more than $20K and that the GLK is not safety rated for a teen driver by the IIHS.

He is like his parents! Cheap they drove crappy American or Japanese cars.

Also, his Mom wrote me back saying I should have compassion for him, but I never get it from him or from his parents.

OK trolly troll....you already posted the above. Either you are a really bored and weird human being, drunk, or seriously need some meds!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you just contradicted everything you said about being poor growing up and hating to spend money. Go away stupid troll.

He is just like all Americans -never wants to buy quality just what is "inexpensive." I like to have some nice things -and a ice Chris one -b/c I didn't have them growing up. DH had everything handed to him - private school, college etc. He really doesn't know what it is ,Ike to have to work really hard for something.

[Anonymous]

Oh, so you are the Americans are privileged troll. Got it.

[Anonymous]

No, I immigrated here. I have worked for everything. Most Americans can't say that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I immigrated here. I have worked for everything. Most Americans can't say that.

You sound like a psycho.

[Anonymous]

A two year old used car is BY FAR the best bang for the buck, money wise. Have your DH look at them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I immigrated here. I have worked for everything. Most Americans can't say that.

this thread is a troll followed by a shark jumper.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A two year old used car is BY FAR the best bang for the buck, money wise. Have your DH look at them.

I suggested a two-year old GLK. He said no.

[Anonymous]

A two year old mercedes is not a good car for someone on a budget. it costs a lot to keep running. A two year old american car is a good deal...a focus for 10K, for example

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I even sent an w-mail to his mother telling her that she needs to knock some common sense into her son's head and hire a professional instructor. Do you know what she told me back? I should have some compassion for him. What a b*tch!

Ah, troll, you've overplayed your hand now.

Yup. Too much. You didn't pay attention in creative writing 101

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I feel for you! A year ago my H who is from Europe finally decided to learn to drive (because I wasn't cheerful enough when having to drive him around). He bought a $5k jalopy and of course it never occurred to me to get collision coverage.
This idiot decided to go for a 10 hour road trip about a month after he got his DL. He also was too cheap to take proper lessons, and barely passed the test.
Just like your H, he hit a tree on the way back, about 4 hours away. We are still paying some medical bills (luckily most was covered by his insurance and his company covered some), 5k went down the drain, he got a new car we could not really afford and he rear ended someone very soon after, so our insurance rates are now triple what we used to pay for my car, a very modest Toyota.
And this jerk used to tell me how much I spend on driving school and how much I spent on the car.
So oh yes I feel ya!!!

Do you have problems with reading comprehension? Th daughter not her father crashed the car.

Sorry, I got too agitated because the situations are so similar. Now it turns out it might be a troll, which makes it even worse for me- my H is a champion in stupidity it seems.
Just like the dh in question, he thinks too much of himself.