Car Accident/So Angry at My DH

[Anonymous]

I can see why he delayed calling you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he goes out and buys another car, I swear I am going to divorce him.

What else is supposed to do? Walk to work?

It sounds like you're really just looking for an excuse to divorce him. I suspect the rest of your family would be happier if you did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH keeps saying that the car is replaceable and that I should be grateful that he and DD were not hurt. He did not call me right away after the accident, so that really pissed me more off. He said he waited b/c: a) he had to calm DD down; and b) was dealing with the police and insurance. As to the car being replaceable, I am sorry. I grew up poor and these things are not "just" replaceable, but he does not understand that.

Your story doesn't make sense. You first said you picked up your daughter and left your DH to deal with the police and insurance stuff, now you're saying he didn't call you until after he did that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How do you total a car going only 10-15 mph?

Very easy, you hit a concrete abutment head on at 15 mph. The force of the impact is 3 x the speed. If you remember your physics, force equals mass x acceleration.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH keeps saying that the car is replaceable and that I should be grateful that he and DD were not hurt. He did not call me right away after the accident, so that really pissed me more off. He said he waited b/c: a) he had to calm DD down; and b) was dealing with the police and insurance. As to the car being replaceable, I am sorry. I grew up poor and these things are not "just" replaceable, but he does not understand that.

Your story doesn't make sense. You first said you picked up your daughter and left your DH to deal with the police and insurance stuff, now you're saying he didn't call you until after he did that?

He was still with them when I arrived. He called in between discussions with insurance and police.

[Anonymous]

You sound like a terrible bitch, and a shitty excuse for a wife and mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH keeps saying that the car is replaceable and that I should be grateful that he and DD were not hurt. He did not call me right away after the accident, so that really pissed me more off. He said he waited b/c: a) he had to calm DD down; and b) was dealing with the police and insurance. As to the car being replaceable, I am sorry. I grew up poor and these things are not "just" replaceable, but he does not understand that.

Your story doesn't make sense. You first said you picked up your daughter and left your DH to deal with the police and insurance stuff, now you're saying he didn't call you until after he did that?

He was still with them when I arrived. He called in between discussions with insurance and police.

Sorry, have to side with your husband. Sh*t happens.

You also need to call a financial advisor if this is pushing you over the edge, financially.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you total a car going only 10-15 mph?

Very easy, you hit a concrete abutment head on at 15 mph. The force of the impact is 3 x the speed. If you remember your physics, force equals mass x acceleration.

She didn't hit a concrete abutment.

[Anonymous]

This is you daughters fault. Stop blaming your poor husband, I want to give the poor guy a hug right now and you a swift kick in the rear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH is teaching our teen DD to drive. He took her out today to practice and calls me a few hours later to say they were in an accident. My DD hit a tree, totaled DH's car. She was only going 10 - 15 mph. I came and picked her up and left DH to deal with police, insurance and towing. He came home later on his own. Now he says the car is totaled and we will need a new one. It did not have collision coverage b/c the idiot said the car was not worth paying for it. So, we are now down to one car - mine - and DH wants a new one. He can go f**k himself. He is always f**king sh*t up. After he came home, he says he needs to go to the doctor b/c his chest hurts. Everything is closed now, so he says he will just go to his doctor tomorrow morning. I told him to get a professional driving school, but he was too f**king cheap. I just want a divorce.

OP, you sound like a truly unpleasant person. I want to weep for you poor husband who is trying to be a good father, gets into an accident, is hurting and has to go home to face his shrill cruel wife who not care less about his health, her daughter or anything but her money.

[Anonymous]

This is from the same troll who claims to be a DH with a horrible DW and a 16 year old daughter. Has to be. HAS TO.

[Anonymous]

Thank your lucky stars that your dd and dh were o.k.

Now your husband has told you that his chest hurts - that is what I would be worrying about now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is from the same troll who claims to be a DH with a horrible DW and a 16 year old daughter. Has to be. HAS TO.

I thought it was the woman escorted out by security.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is from the same troll who claims to be a DH with a horrible DW and a 16 year old daughter. Has to be. HAS TO.

I thought it was the woman escorted out by security.

They are probably the same!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he goes out and buys another car, I swear I am going to divorce him.

You say that now but I know when we overextended ourselves after totalling our beater it brought us closer together. A $50,000 Escalade can bring some fire back into the relationship.