Car Accident/So Angry at My DH

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What kind of person doesn't have good insurance coverage for a new teen driver? That is just begging for trouble.

If the car is really a beater, collision does not pay

[Anonymous]

But he bought The car and didn't say anything. He showed Me twó Volvos. I droVe one. He bought The other.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But he bought The car and didn't say anything. He showed Me twó Volvos. I droVe one. He bought The other.

So have you filed yet?

[Anonymous]

Seriously? DH needed a new car. You want a MB. He wont buy it do you divorce over it? WTF?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH keeps saying that the car is replaceable and that I should be grateful that he and DD were not hurt. He did not call me right away after the accident, so that really pissed me more off. He said he waited b/c: a) he had to calm DD down; and b) was dealing with the police and insurance. As to the car being replaceable, I am sorry. I grew up poor and these things are not "just" replaceable, but he does not understand that.

I think your DH knew how you would react so he needed to manage one thing at a time, rather than a shit storm.

Yes, the car IS replaceable, whether you grew up rich or poor. It is a thing, however, lives are not replaceable. The accident could have resulted in much worse consequences with severe injury or deaths.

I agree with the pp. This is more than about the accident. You can not control another human being to your pleasure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Come on people -he was not planning ahead and didn't have insurance! She has every right to be mad. I'll bet she's shouldering the burden of the family responsibilities and he just cruises along knowing she has everything covered...that's the reason she's mad. OP - I'm with you!

If it's an old car, then the insurance company does not cover for the replacement of the vehicle. Just covers for damage to the other car/property.

[Anonymous]

Today's weather is a perfect example why DH should listen to me and buy an SUV. I saw so many small cars like the Volvo sliding today, but then what do I know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Today's weather is a perfect example why DH should listen to me and buy an SUV. I saw so many small cars like the Volvo sliding today, but then what do I know.

Apparently not much. DH is doing a temporary contract in Northern Ontario. We have a Honda Fit and have no troubles getting around. Get proper winter tires and learn to drive on ice and snow. An SUV does not drive better in the snow and ice. A truck does not drive better in the snow and ice. The only thing that drives better in snow and ice are proper tires, caution, and smart, defensive driving. If people are sliding, then it is going to fast on improper tires, plain and simple.

[Anonymous]

My Dah just doesn't listen to me. He f**ks everything up. You would never see me in a crappy car like a Honda Fit. That is not even a real car.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Dah just doesn't listen to me. He f**ks everything up. You would never see me in a crappy car like a Honda Fit. That is not even a real car.

Says the woman driving the beater Volvo.

[Anonymous]

I drive a MB ML 320.

[Anonymous]

What constitutes a beater? A 2009 Volvo with 60K?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I drive a MB ML 320.

If this is supposed to impress me, it doesn't. You overpaid for an ugly car that happens to have a "brand name". You could have just put the extra money into a pile and burned it.

[Anonymous]

You sound like my DH. Maybe you're made for each other. Two cheapos.

[Anonymous]

Why did that poor man marry you? Do you not realize you sound insane?