Yup, I am judging

[Anonymous]

OP you are a tool.

[Anonymous]

OP, I know a mom with lots of kids who doesn't work and pays no attention to her kids. Whats her excuse? It wouldn't be so bad if she were not the most judgmental person I know (she is). How does she have all that time to judge, yet not raise her own children?

So yeah, ITA with OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I know a mom with lots of kids who doesn't work and pays no attention to her kids. Whats her excuse? It wouldn't be so bad if she were not the most judgmental person I know (she is). How does she have all that time to judge, yet not raise her own children?

So yeah, ITA with OP.

Sorry, but why do you agree with OP? Your example is about a judgmental unemployed mom who ignores her kids. OP is talking about the awfulness of a mom who works full-time having another baby. Because, ZOMG, having a job = neglectful parent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I know a mom with lots of kids who doesn't work and pays no attention to her kids. Whats her excuse? It wouldn't be so bad if she were not the most judgmental person I know (she is). How does she have all that time to judge, yet not raise her own children?

So yeah, ITA with OP.

Sorry, but why do you agree with OP? Your example is about a judgmental unemployed mom who ignores her kids. OP is talking about the awfulness of a mom who works full-time having another baby. Because, ZOMG, having a job = neglectful parent.

No, no, you're misunderstanding the OP! It's having a job + jogging + making the kids walk to school with the nanny when it's raining = neglectful mother.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Because GOOD mothers want to be with their children for every possible second and do not want to do anything (besides paid employment) that does not involve their children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Agree. Why does she jig for an hour every day? I WOH and try to schedule exercise to spend more time with my kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Agree. Why does she jig for an hour every day? I WOH and try to schedule exercise to spend more time with my kid.

Thats exactly the thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have to get this out.

Someone I know is pregnant with her FOURTH child. No problem except she NEVER spends any time with her kids. She works FT, has a live in nanny. After work, she jogs every day and spends no time with those poor kids. I would be rushing home to be with my kids. I am always sad for her kids.

Even where there is rain, snow, storms--the nanny still have to walk ALL the kids to school. Even though mom's car is home, she never drives them. Cant the mom get up a few minutes earlier and drive the kids? I cant imagine being like that.

Why would someone want another kids if they don't even spend time with the ones they have?

It's like having 4 kids when you don't have the money to send them all to college. In other words, each family has their own set of values and priorities. MYOB.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Because GOOD mothers want to be with their children for every possible second and do not want to do anything (besides paid employment) that does not involve their children.

Not even sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Because GOOD mothers want to be with their children for every possible second and do not want to do anything (besides paid employment) that does not involve their children.

Not even sex?

Well, the OP hasn't told us (yet) when her neighbor has sex. But presumably her neighbor neglects her children while having sex, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Agree. Why does she jig for an hour every day? I WOH and try to schedule exercise to spend more time with my kid.

It's those filthy Papist Fenians, doing their jigs instead of ensuring the safety and education of their children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Agree. Why does she jig for an hour every day? I WOH and try to schedule exercise to spend more time with my kid.

Shorter PP: the right way to do things is the way I do things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Agree. Why does she jig for an hour every day? I WOH and try to schedule exercise to spend more time with my kid.

It's those filthy Papist Fenians, doing their jigs instead of ensuring the safety and education of their children.

I'm giggling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Sounds like this mom just couldn't be bothered. Its not that she works. Its that when she can be with the kids, she chooses not to.

Because GOOD mothers want to be with their children for every possible second and do not want to do anything (besides paid employment) that does not involve their children.

Not even sex?

I am surprised with all the working, jogging and then parenting for a couple of hours, that she still has energy for sex. But I guess thats why she jogs, so he still likes her. SHe must be insecure.