Yup, I am judging

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:12:01 here. OP, you didn't respond -- so, do the kids seem happy, etc? You seem to know other details about the family, such as who is walking them to school, etc.

I dont know how they do in school.
They seem to behave normally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I dont know why this bothers me, but it does.
I wish it didnt. I hate judging.

Ha. Um, no...you clearly do not hate judging.

[Anonymous]

She is clearly a crappy mom.

[Anonymous]

Seriously, how do YOU know she doesn't spend ANY time with her kids???

Because she doesn't drive them to school? Neither do I.

Because she jogs after work? Big deal.

Do you know if she eats dinner with them? And dies homework with them? And bathes them? And cuddles with them? And how about the weekend? Does she schlep them to sports, etc?

There's no way you could possibly have enough info to make such a blanket statement.

PS - are you ignoring your kids right now so you can play on DCUM?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seriously, how do YOU know she doesn't spend ANY time with her kids???

Because she doesn't drive them to school? Neither do I.

Because she jogs after work? Big deal.

Do you know if she eats dinner with them? And dies homework with them? And bathes them? And cuddles with them? And how about the weekend? Does she schlep them to sports, etc?

There's no way you could possibly have enough info to make such a blanket statement.

PS - are you ignoring your kids right now so you can play on DCUM?

Nope, I am not ignoring my kids. They are in their music lesson.
She does not arrive home until 6pm, she then jogs. Its 7pm before she is actually in the home. Her kids are young (some) and the youngest goes to bed at 7pm. The older two go at 8pm.
The poor kids are in NO lessons. Weekends, she does not work but she still leaves them (with nanny) to go out. BUT she does spend some time with them on weekends. I didnt says she never spent a minute with them.

[Anonymous]

MYOB. you cannot control people's choices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seriously, how do YOU know she doesn't spend ANY time with her kids???

Because she doesn't drive them to school? Neither do I.

Because she jogs after work? Big deal.

Do you know if she eats dinner with them? And dies homework with them? And bathes them? And cuddles with them? And how about the weekend? Does she schlep them to sports, etc?

There's no way you could possibly have enough info to make such a blanket statement.

PS - are you ignoring your kids right now so you can play on DCUM?

Nope, I am not ignoring my kids. They are in their music lesson.
She does not arrive home until 6pm, she then jogs. Its 7pm before she is actually in the home. Her kids are young (some) and the youngest goes to bed at 7pm. The older two go at 8pm.
The poor kids are in NO lessons. Weekends, she does not work but she still leaves them (with nanny) to go out. BUT she does spend some time with them on weekends. I didnt says she never spent a minute with them.

Whoa...the kids don't take ANY lessons? Do you think maybe you should report that to CPS?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have to get this out.

Someone I know is pregnant with her FOURTH child. No problem except she NEVER spends any time with her kids. She works FT, has a live in nanny. After work, she jogs every day and spends no time with those poor kids. I would be rushing home to be with my kids. I am always sad for her kids.

Even where there is rain, snow, storms--the nanny still have to walk ALL the kids to school. Even though mom's car is home, she never drives them. Cant the mom get up a few minutes earlier and drive the kids? I cant imagine being like that.

Why would someone want another kids if they don't even spend time with the ones they have?

Yes, we've heard from you before about your neighbor, who jogs after work (!) and has her nanny drive the children to school when it's raining (!!!). I feel bad for your neighbor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Seriously, how do YOU know she doesn't spend ANY time with her kids???

Because she doesn't drive them to school? Neither do I.

Because she jogs after work? Big deal.

Do you know if she eats dinner with them? And dies homework with them? And bathes them? And cuddles with them? And how about the weekend? Does she schlep them to sports, etc[u]?

There's no way you could possibly have enough info to make such a blanket statement.

PS - are you ignoring your kids right now so you can play on DCUM?

Nope, I am not ignoring my kids. They are in their music lesson.
She does not arrive home until 6pm, she then jogs. Its 7pm before she is actually in the home. Her kids are young (some) and the youngest goes to bed at 7pm. The older two go at 8pm.
The poor kids are in NO lessons. Weekends, she does not work but she still leaves them (with nanny) to go out. BUT she does spend some time with them on weekends. I didnt says she never spent a minute with them.

Whoa...the kids don't take ANY lessons? Do you think maybe you should report that to CPS?

IT was ASKED. I answered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to get this out.

Someone I know is pregnant with her FOURTH child. No problem except she NEVER spends any time with her kids. She works FT, has a live in nanny. After work, she jogs every day and spends no time with those poor kids. I would be rushing home to be with my kids. I am always sad for her kids.

Even where there is rain, snow, storms--the nanny still have to walk ALL the kids to school. Even though mom's car is home, she never drives them. Cant the mom get up a few minutes earlier and drive the kids? I cant imagine being like that.

Why would someone want another kids if they don't even spend time with the ones they have?

Yes, we've heard from you before about your neighbor, who jogs after work (!) and has her nanny drive the children to school when it's raining (!!!). I feel bad for your neighbor.

You betcha thats me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to get this out.

Someone I know is pregnant with her FOURTH child. No problem except she NEVER spends any time with her kids. She works FT, has a live in nanny. After work, she jogs every day and spends no time with those poor kids. I would be rushing home to be with my kids. I am always sad for her kids.

Even where there is rain, snow, storms--the nanny still have to walk ALL the kids to school. Even though mom's car is home, she never drives them. Cant the mom get up a few minutes earlier and drive the kids? I cant imagine being like that.

Why would someone want another kids if they don't even spend time with the ones they have?

Yes, we've heard from you before about your neighbor, who jogs after work (!) and has her nanny drive the children to school when it's raining (!!!). I feel bad for your neighbor.

You betcha thats me.

Get a life, OP. You seem to have an unhealthy obsession with your neighbor.

[Anonymous]

My SIL had 4 kids and worked full time. Her husband had his own business. Both spent very little time with their kids. Kids grew up kissing the ground they walked on.

We spent every minute with our kids. Involved in every aspect of their lives. Kids grew up, hate us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My SIL had 4 kids and worked full time. Her husband had his own business. Both spent very little time with their kids. Kids grew up kissing the ground they walked on.

We spent every minute with our kids. Involved in every aspect of their lives. Kids grew up, hate us.

That is sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to get this out.

Someone I know is pregnant with her FOURTH child. No problem except she NEVER spends any time with her kids. She works FT, has a live in nanny. After work, she jogs every day and spends no time with those poor kids. I would be rushing home to be with my kids. I am always sad for her kids.

Even where there is rain, snow, storms--the nanny still have to walk ALL the kids to school. Even though mom's car is home, she never drives them. Cant the mom get up a few minutes earlier and drive the kids? I cant imagine being like that.

Why would someone want another kids if they don't even spend time with the ones they have?

Yes, we've heard from you before about your neighbor, who jogs after work (!) and has her nanny drive the children to school when it's raining (!!!). I feel bad for your neighbor.

You betcha thats me.

Get a life, OP. You seem to have an unhealthy obsession with your neighbor.

Just her parenting ability.

[Anonymous]

It's hilarious that you complain that this mother chooses to exercise when she SHOULD be spending that (what-hour?) with her children, but then you purport to feel sorry for these poor, beleaguered children because she doesn't ship them off to lessons for that same hour. You REALLY don't want to like anything about her. Perhaps you should examine your motivation for bitching about her and lay off.