s/o straight men sleeping with men

[Anonymous]

I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

Stop your denial. Seriously its getting old.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

Stop your denial. Seriously its getting old.

+1 Geez Louise. Do us a favor. We're tired of arguing with you. Call yourself whatever you want EXCEPT straight. You could have a field day with this. Win win for everyone!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

PP with the gay brother. He did not purport to speak for ALL gays. He spoke for himself and I posted it.

You are saying it is the opposite? I disagree. People are arguing to the teeth they are not "gay" although they committed one or more homosexual acts.

What's wrong with being called gay? People are going out of their way to deflect the label - like something is wrong with it.

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

PP with the gay brother. He did not purport to speak for ALL gays. He spoke for himself and I posted it.

You are saying it is the opposite? I disagree. People are arguing to the teeth they are not "gay" although they committed one or more homosexual acts.

What's wrong with being called gay? People are going out of their way to deflect the label - like something is wrong with it.

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

BAM!! +1, girl. You got!!

[Anonymous]

^^it!

[Anonymous]

There's nothing wrong with being called "gay" except for the fact that relating is solely to a physical act is completely wrong. Gay men LOVE other men even when they are not having sex with them. They love their male partners more than they love other males. Just like straight men loves their wife more than they love other women.

Sure, I engaged in homosexual activity when I was 14 at a sports camp. You can call me "gay" if you want, but please don't demean the love that gay men and women have for their partners.

[Anonymous]

Okay, fine. I'm a proud gay man that doesn't like to have sex with other men, that looks at hetero (or girl on girl) porn to get off and thinks of Cameron Diaz when I masterbate. But, I will stand proud next to my gay brothers and shout from the rooftops that I am a proud gay man. Happy?

[Anonymous]

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

^^^^This is the dumbest thing ever written by anyone. You don't care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom.... but you do care enough that people be honest about it. Are you serious? If you don't care, then you wouldn't be talking about it with someone. And if you weren't caring and not talking about it - you wouldn't know, or care, if someone was bing up front about it.

wow you bigots are stupid.

And for all of you who are saying "you're gay if you touched one man" - your husband fucked a dude in high school just like everyone else did. Get over it. Little boys all play around with other little boys and it's the gayest thing in the world.

[Anonymous]

Savage Love had a great column on this, where men describe some gay experience as just having happened, as if they had nothing to do with it. I'll keep this on the non-explicit board, but essentially there's no such thing as winding up with a ___ in your mouth by accident.

The guys who have done this are gay or bi and just have too much shame to admit it. Hey, from me to you: it's ok to be a straight-identified bi person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

^^^^This is the dumbest thing ever written by anyone. You don't care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom.... but you do care enough that people be honest about it. Are you serious? If you don't care, then you wouldn't be talking about it with someone. And if you weren't caring and not talking about it - you wouldn't know, or care, if someone was bing up front about it.

wow you bigots are stupid.

And for all of you who are saying "you're gay if you touched one man" - your husband fucked a dude in high school just like everyone else did. Get over it. Little boys all play around with other little boys and it's the gayest thing in the world.

Woah there buddy!

First off you completely missed the point of her post. She does not care if you are gay, straight, bi- etc. But the point is DONT LIE ABOUT IT. When you lie or do not admit to it, then it makes you look stupid and unsupportive of your own choices.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

Dude, your sexuality isn't like sushi, so if you try it seven times you'll start to like it. I've always liked girls, even before I would admit it. I'm about as likely to "try" being gay as I am to try having sex with a goat. I don't need to try it to know I'm not into it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, fine. I'm a proud gay man that doesn't like to have sex with other men, that looks at hetero (or girl on girl) porn to get off and thinks of Cameron Diaz when I masterbate. But, I will stand proud next to my gay brothers and shout from the rooftops that I am a proud gay man. Happy?

I think you should and I applaud you. You'll be a lot happier. Also, to let you in on a little secret, a lot of them get a boner thinking about Cam D. too!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

^^^^This is the dumbest thing ever written by anyone. You don't care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom.... but you do care enough that people be honest about it. Are you serious? If you don't care, then you wouldn't be talking about it with someone. And if you weren't caring and not talking about it - you wouldn't know, or care, if someone was bing up front about it.

wow you bigots are stupid.

And for all of you who are saying "you're gay if you touched one man" - your husband fucked a dude in high school just like everyone else did. Get over it. Little boys all play around with other little boys and it's the gayest thing in the world.

Gosh, you're angry! Feeling shaky in your identity much? Get a grip. A lot of guys may have "played around" back in the day. Big whoop. They should own it and not lie about it. Embrace it. To thine own self be true. Nobody is saying shout it from the roof tops. Hell, keep it between you and your partner(s), but be honest and don't lie. What's the problem with this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm asking seriously - if you try something once. one time. once. and aren't into it. that is not gay.

and for the gay brother (thanks for speaking for all gays btw ) no one is perpetuating that it's bad to be gay. But rather the opposite. That we think it's all good - which is why we try it - and find out it's not for us. You know, same way a gay teen tries it with a girl once, and discovers its not for him.

Good grief. every try something and don't like it? Seriously, tell me what's the difference.

PP with the gay brother. He did not purport to speak for ALL gays. He spoke for himself and I posted it.

You are saying it is the opposite? I disagree. People are arguing to the teeth they are not "gay" although they committed one or more homosexual acts.
What's wrong with being called gay? People are going out of their way to deflect the label - like something is wrong with it.

Frankly, I do not care what people do in the privacy of their bedroom. Just be upfront about it.

People are arguing with being called gay because they currently do not fantasize about other men, love the scent and feel of a woman, can't wait to bone their wives and do not secretly wish she was some dude - they don't look at other men and think they're hot, but can fully appreciate a sexy woman walking down the sidewalk with her ass swaying slightly and her tits bouncing. That's why they're arguing about it. Clearly they have no problem with it if they've tried it and they wouldn't have a problem calling themselves gay if they wanted to be with men in mind and body. But they don't. How is that difficult to understand?