s/o straight men sleeping with men

[Anonymous]

Look at Craigslist men seeking men. There are lots of married men looking for "discret" encounters.

[Anonymous]

^^Ewww.... I know, scary right? Sorry for their DWs

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^Ewww.... I know, scary right? Sorry for their DWs

you're probably one of them!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^Ewww.... I know, scary right? Sorry for their DWs

you're probably one of them!

^^ Nope, sorry! Straight female here. And no I've never had a lesbian experience and wouldn't want one. And, I actually think if my DH had a secret fetish for men I wouldn't be happy, but I wouldn't flip out either. What would flip me out is the lying part. That is so gross!

[Anonymous]

I think the problem here is that certain bigoted posters can't recognize that there's such a thing as bi. In their mind anyone who's ever had a m-m experience is a "secret gay." Presumably these guys aren't allowed to marry anyone because if they tried SSM then their husband would be able to accuse them of being a "secret straight."

I imagine that being attracted to both sexes is probably like being attracted to different types of women. For a long time my preferred type was brunettes but I always winded up dating blondes. Then I had a series of Asian girlfriends. I wound up marrying someone with English-Scottish heritage (reddish-medium brown hair fwiw).

I still find many brunettes and Asians attractive, but to say that somehow my wife has to worry about them because she can never be that is just stupid and juvenile. I chose to be with her, and I quite literally agreed to forsake all others. I'm not going to cheat because there's an attractive brunette or Asian in my office. My guess is that bi guys who marry women can do the same thing.

The problem isn't whether someone once touched a penis, it's character. You should have judged the character of your guy before you married him, and if you would divorce him because he once did something you think is icky, you're a shallow POS and he's better off without you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^Ewww.... I know, scary right? Sorry for their DWs

you're probably one of them!

^^ Nope, sorry! Straight female here. And no I've never had a lesbian experience and wouldn't want one. And, I actually think if my DH had a secret fetish for men I wouldn't be happy, but I wouldn't flip out either. What would flip me out is the lying part. That is so gross!

I was insinuating that you were one of the DWs. Most of them have no clue. Most of them have your attitude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the problem here is that certain bigoted posters can't recognize that there's such a thing as bi. In their mind anyone who's ever had a m-m experience is a "secret gay." Presumably these guys aren't allowed to marry anyone because if they tried SSM then their husband would be able to accuse them of being a "secret straight."

I imagine that being attracted to both sexes is probably like being attracted to different types of women. For a long time my preferred type was brunettes but I always winded up dating blondes. Then I had a series of Asian girlfriends. I wound up marrying someone with English-Scottish heritage (reddish-medium brown hair fwiw).

I still find many brunettes and Asians attractive, but to say that somehow my wife has to worry about them because she can never be that is just stupid and juvenile. I chose to be with her, and I quite literally agreed to forsake all others. I'm not going to cheat because there's an attractive brunette or Asian in my office. My guess is that bi guys who marry women can do the same thing.

The problem isn't whether someone once touched a penis, it's character. You should have judged the character of your guy before you married him, and if you would divorce him because he once did something you think is icky, you're a shallow POS and he's better off without you.

I get what you are saying, but you have to add that they are so strict in their definition of orientation that they would have to agree that any man who masturbates is only with a woman to cover his real addiction to masturbation. He's a masturbater posing as a heterosexual married man. That's how fucking stupid their argument is. You ARE whatever you are fucking at the moment. Don't worry, the gay male community looks down on guys who go back and forth between men and women too.

[Anonymous]

My wife read this and agreed with the posters saying that they don't want a man who has been with other men. She echoes everything you guys were saying.

She even said "That's why I married you, you're not into that stuff - 100% all man."

I used to mess around with a gay guy I worked with in college.

[Anonymous]

Whatever helps you guys sleep at night. At the very least you are bi and your DW should know that.

And if you, with a straight face, are trying to say that sexing both men and women is the equivalent of sexing both brunette women and blond women - uhhh - you might want to take Middle School sex ed again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the problem here is that certain bigoted posters can't recognize that there's such a thing as bi. In their mind anyone who's ever had a m-m experience is a "secret gay." Presumably these guys aren't allowed to marry anyone because if they tried SSM then their husband would be able to accuse them of being a "secret straight."

I imagine that being attracted to both sexes is probably like being attracted to different types of women. For a long time my preferred type was brunettes but I always winded up dating blondes. Then I had a series of Asian girlfriends. I wound up marrying someone with English-Scottish heritage (reddish-medium brown hair fwiw).

I still find many brunettes and Asians attractive, but to say that somehow my wife has to worry about them because she can never be that is just stupid and juvenile. I chose to be with her, and I quite literally agreed to forsake all others. I'm not going to cheat because there's an attractive brunette or Asian in my office. My guess is that bi guys who marry women can do the same thing.

The problem isn't whether someone once touched a penis, it's character. You should have judged the character of your guy before you married him, and if you would divorce him because he once did something you think is icky, you're a shallow POS and he's better off without you.

...Said like a true gay man. Good for you, PP. For the record, there's a HUGE difference between hair color in women and big sack of hairy balls. Anyone else out there willing to say you can understand the similarities between these? You're GAY!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think the problem here is that certain bigoted posters can't recognize that there's such a thing as bi. In their mind anyone who's ever had a m-m experience is a "secret gay." Presumably these guys aren't allowed to marry anyone because if they tried SSM then their husband would be able to accuse them of being a "secret straight."

I imagine that being attracted to both sexes is probably like being attracted to different types of women. For a long time my preferred type was brunettes but I always winded up dating blondes. Then I had a series of Asian girlfriends. I wound up marrying someone with English-Scottish heritage (reddish-medium brown hair fwiw).

I still find many brunettes and Asians attractive, but to say that somehow my wife has to worry about them because she can never be that is just stupid and juvenile. I chose to be with her, and I quite literally agreed to forsake all others. I'm not going to cheat because there's an attractive brunette or Asian in my office. My guess is that bi guys who marry women can do the same thing.

The problem isn't whether someone once touched a penis, it's character. You should have judged the character of your guy before you married him, and if you would divorce him because he once did something you think is icky, you're a shallow POS and he's better off without you.

I get what you are saying, but you have to add that they are so strict in their definition of orientation that they would have to agree that any man who masturbates is only with a woman to cover his real addiction to masturbation. He's a masturbater posing as a heterosexual married man. That's how fucking stupid their argument is. You ARE whatever you are fucking at the moment. Don't worry, the gay male community looks down on guys who go back and forth between men and women too.

More bullshit! Oh, lawdy. We're in trouble, straight people... REAL STRAIGHT PEOPLE... The secret gays are working over time!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife read this and agreed with the posters saying that they don't want a man who has been with other men. She echoes everything you guys were saying.

She even said "That's why I married you, you're not into that stuff - 100% all man."

I used to mess around with a gay guy I worked with in college.

You should feel so good for yourself, scumbag. I hope someone spits in your food or cums on your pizza and serves it to you. You'd never know, right. So, it shouldn't matter. You're the worst kind of douche. Go back to craigslist and troll there. It's just gross to have you on here!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife read this and agreed with the posters saying that they don't want a man who has been with other men. She echoes everything you guys were saying.

She even said "That's why I married you, you're not into that stuff - 100% all man."

I used to mess around with a gay guy I worked with in college.

Lots of guys have same sex encounters, especially when they're younger. That doesn't make them gay. It just means they were experimenting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife read this and agreed with the posters saying that they don't want a man who has been with other men. She echoes everything you guys were saying.

She even said "That's why I married you, you're not into that stuff - 100% all man."

I used to mess around with a gay guy I worked with in college.

Lots of guys have same sex encounters, especially when they're younger. That doesn't make them gay. It just means they were experimenting.

Even if I agreed with the experimentation notion, the bolded part implies that is was more than once and ongoing - that is not experimenting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife read this and agreed with the posters saying that they don't want a man who has been with other men. She echoes everything you guys were saying.

She even said "That's why I married you, you're not into that stuff - 100% all man."

I used to mess around with a gay guy I worked with in college.

Lots of guys have same sex encounters, especially when they're younger. That doesn't make them gay. It just means they were experimenting.

Okay, Mr.-I'm-not-gay-experimenter. Mr.I'm-gay-but-dont-want-to-admit-it-er, is a more accurate title for you. But, like above, whatever helps you sleep at night. Just consider telling your wife. You're forcing her to live a lie. It's not fair.