If you were to find yourself single...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have been friends for 12 years with a woman I met at work. She is divorced and I know about men she has dated and she knows about issues with my marriage.

If I were single again, I would tell her that we are both quitting our jobs. Then we are getting in my car and going somewhere else to start over. The first night together we would have the sex I am sure that both of us have dreamed of for ages. I would kiss every inch of her body and let her know how much I have wanted that moment.

Then we would go about finding employment (we are both well educated) and let our children know that we are together and plan to stay that way. And one day, whether it is five years or ten years or however long it may be, I would want to marry her with just the kids and close friends invited so that they could see how happy we are. The crazy thing is, I think there is a good chance that all of this will someday happen.

Damn. Just read this post. Sorry to the other PP. This PP wins the prize for worst husband ever. Seriously. WTF. Fantasizing and having an emotional affair with a woman for 12 years?



PP, it doesn't take a crystal ball that your marriage will soon be in the toilet if it isn't already there. Yep, if you continue the relationship with the coworker, your vision of being single will come true. Your wife would give you your walking papers in a heartbeat if she knew this was your post. You are putting way too much energy into the relationship with your coworker and taking away energy you should be giving to your wife, marriage, and family. MUST REALLY SUCK to be your your wife.

I don't know why, but when I read that post, I assumed the poster was a woman who is fantasizing about leaving her husband for another woman.
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[Anonymous]

I don't know why, but when I read that post, I assumed the poster was a woman who is fantasizing about leaving her husband for another woman.

I thought the same thing!

[Anonymous]

Probably would not remarry. I love DW & would mourn a long time if I lost her. Would have a hard time bonding with another woman.

[Anonymous]

I've been alone for a LONGGGGGG time. I would like to get married and do all the really naughty stuff. I don't think I would share that piece of me with just a boyfriend or FWB, it is just not me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been alone for a LONGGGGGG time. I would like to get married and do all the really naughty stuff. I don't think I would share that piece of me with just a boyfriend or FWB, it is just not me.

Waiting for marriage isn't all it is cracked up to be. If you are single, enjoy it. See all that is out there. Seriously, it sucks to wait till marriage then find out your partner isn't into all the really naughty stuff that you like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I don't know why, but when I read that post, I assumed the poster was a woman who is fantasizing about leaving her husband for another woman.

I thought the same thing!

Agreed, I also assumed that was a woman (with the female friend fantasies for 12 years).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been alone for a LONGGGGGG time. I would like to get married and do all the really naughty stuff. I don't think I would share that piece of me with just a boyfriend or FWB, it is just not me.

Waiting for marriage isn't all it is cracked up to be. If you are single, enjoy it. See all that is out there. Seriously, it sucks to wait till marriage then find out your partner isn't into all the really naughty stuff that you like.

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