If you were to find yourself single...

[Anonymous]

If you were to find yourself magically single, not traumatized by your spouse dying or a messy divorce just *poof* one day single, would you actively start looking for a romantic relationship? Would you get married again, stay single, seriously date but not marry one person?

My marriage is fine, probably better than most. My spouse isn’t my soul mate or best friend. If I were suddenly single, I don’t think I’d look for another relationship, wouldn’t really even want to date.

[Anonymous]

I had this discussion with a friend a while back. I would definitely not remarry or even live with another man. I would enjoy my independence. I would date because I enjoy meeting and being with different men. Something I am missing at this stage in my life. I don't think I was meant to be a monogamist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had this discussion with a friend a while back. I would definitely not remarry or even live with another man. I would enjoy my independence. I would date because I enjoy meeting and being with different men. Something I am missing at this stage in my life. I don't think I was meant to be a monogamist.

I AM single after being married and I have no desire to marry or ever live with another men. I also enjoy meeting new people and I'm fairly social. I just don't think it would work out long term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had this discussion with a friend a while back. I would definitely not remarry or even live with another man. I would enjoy my independence. I would date because I enjoy meeting and being with different men. Something I am missing at this stage in my life. I don't think I was meant to be a monogamist.

I sooo want you!

[Anonymous]

I like being attached. I'd seek out the picket fence again.

[Anonymous]

I am happily married and still I would not get married again. Nor would I have anymore children. I would date and maybe become monogomous again, but that's it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I had this discussion with a friend a while back. I would definitely not remarry or even live with another man. I would enjoy my independence. I would date because I enjoy meeting and being with different men. Something I am missing at this stage in my life. I don't think I was meant to be a monogamist.

I sooo want you!

Well damn, if you are the person I was having the conversation with you know how to reach me for a little FWB thing.

[Anonymous]

I was not, but dammmmm. Are you taking applications?Cause why settle, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you were to find yourself magically single, not traumatized by your spouse dying or a messy divorce just *poof* one day single, would you actively start looking for a romantic relationship? Would you get married again, stay single, seriously date but not marry one person?

My marriage is fine, probably better than most. My spouse isn’t my soul mate or best friend. If I were suddenly single, I don’t think I’d look for another relationship, wouldn’t really even want to date.

I would continue with my FWB but not change anything else. No more marriage for me.

[Anonymous]

I would get married again if I found the perfect guy for me - but I wouldn't push it. I'd rather be alone and having fun, then with someone that wasn't my best friend with benefits.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had this discussion with a friend a while back. I would definitely not remarry or even live with another man. I would enjoy my independence. I would date because I enjoy meeting and being with different men. Something I am missing at this stage in my life. I don't think I was meant to be a monogamist.

Widow here. Feel exactly the same as you.

[Anonymous]

I'd probably date here and there. Definitely wouldn't do something to disrupt my kids' lives. They come first. But that's what babysitters are for.

[Anonymous]

No more MIL, ever.

[Anonymous]

I would remarry if I could find another great guy. I've had good luck with relationships and have never really experienced a dysfunctional one.

[Anonymous]

I am not sure....I would not marry again...never lived alone, so, while most of the PP's say how great it would be, I am not too sure. But I would fuck with a vengence.