How does public assistance (welfare) work?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:In my experience working with families who receive welfare, those that are generational or life long welfare recipients (grew up on welfare, on welfare as an adult) often have a very poor understanding of money / budgeting and very limited financial management skills. It is often important to them to use the money they have to be generous and kind and to do things for others. They buy gifts, take friends and family out for meals etc as part of being caring, considerate giving people. They don't want to stand out as the poor people who never contribute or never do anything nice for others. The problem is this comes at the expense of the rest of the month. One family I worked with always brought me a gift each month to show their appreciation and after paying a few bills, spent the rest on gifts for others. By the 3rd or 4th of the month they had $0 left for the rest of the month.

OP - regardless of how they spend the money they get a set amount so it is costing the same tax wise - they don't get more each month if they spent the money on gifts.


I don't have any personal experience in receiving welfare, foodstamps, etc., however, I do have experience in seeing that those in need receive this assistance. Frankly, OP, your comments make me want to slap you. In this economy, when so many people have lost everything, very few families that I have seen are "generations of long welfare recipients." I suppose you think poor families have no right to food, shelter, any form of material happiness. You and OP are class AAA assholes and one day you may need help and you'd better hope that you have a case worker who is more like me than you.

Also stop judging people and their situations.

OP, for your information, Food stamps are good to buy any kind of food. This includes meat, vegebles, fruit, canned and frozen foods. Food stamps cannot be used to buy paper productsi, e.g., paper towels, toliet tissue, sanitary napkins or tampons for females. I suppose the two of you with your high six-figure income would like them to use their hands in lieu of toilet tissue, the hem of their sleev or dress to wipe their nose, and find free newspapers to use for women's hygeine products.

OP, it is truly none of your fucking business how this woman spends her food stamps. Poor as she may be, she obviously, has a generouis heart and spirit and wants to share her very limited good fortune with others. Apparently, this is not something with which you are familiar.

I have had clients who have worked hard all their lives but lost their jobs, then their homes, and one woman (who was in exec. management,) job was cut and she could find nothing else. Not even flipping burgers because she is too well educated and it was believed that she would continue looking and would leave when she found a better job, which, of course, she would have done, was living in her station wagon with an 11 yr. old boy and 5-yr old male twins. Her ex was nowhere to be found. Her story is the norm these days. Be careful, because it could happen to you and do not think for single moment that it could not.


I have no idea why you quoted my post then ranted at the OP. If you were angry about my post, you have poor reading comprehension or poor anger management. I am not against welfare. Many people are on welfare because of the poor economy or because of circumstance - my point was that those who are not on welfare because of circumstance but are instead on welfare generationally are those that struggle more with budgeting their money. I was speaking to the OP's point of trying to understand why some people spend their money on gifts / in a generous and giving way when they have other needs.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm not the OP, but I thought she said she had little financial support, not court-ordered child support? (i.e. could be from grandparents or something) Maybe I read incorrectly.


The OP said:

Anonymous wrote:I am the OP and I work very hard to get by. I am a single parent who rarely gets child support so I am on my own most of the time.


People don't normally call financial help from family members (not the parent of the child) child support.
twentysomethingmom
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Nursing has a long wait and is hard to get into, and dental hygiene has a long wait (usually two years). PTA and OTA usually has fall-only admission, so that can be a problem for those who are in need now. The rest of the programs are NOT closed, and even if they are, you can take the pre-reqs now as a degree-seeking student (making yourself eligible for the Pell Grant and getting access to career services) and wait until the fall to start the core classes. Believe me, I've researched over 50% of the state universities and many, many community colleges in my frantic state of need earlier in 2011. Calling each program individually can be expensive if the individual has limited phone minutes (as I did), but it only takes a few seconds to copy and paste "Hello, I was wondering if this program is still offering admission X semester?" into email format and email them to tons of colleges. Then, once you get in, use your university email address to apply for jobs.

I'm puzzled by why this is so hard to believe around here. I'm not a troll, and I'm not some psycho conservative person who wants to end all welfare programs. The only explanation I can think of is that maybe people are very, very rich in this area vs. very, very poor, and that those at the higher end don't understand how normal people do this. Most people I know from my hometown are totally unskilled, have tons of kids, and manage go to community college/work crap jobs while staying off welfare. It's not that hard (unless you live in a place with literally NO internet/access to community college). It may sound like an obscenely hard life to some, but this is kinda how the rest of the country lives...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Not the PP you're responding to (I'm 14:43), but that's why they need to go back to community college or start volunteering in a professional-
sounding position ASAP if there's a gap in the resume (do welfare moms even HAVE resumes? my welfare dad didn't...).


Both of these are good ideas. Now, however, times are hard, and community colleges overcrowded, especially the most desirable programs and classes. Even volunteer opportunities can be hard to come by because there are so too many recent graduates and people who've lost middle-class jobs. If you have a specific volunteer organization that could use untrained help, most counties around here have volunteer coordinators who would love to hear from you.


twentysomethingmom
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re: the OP's original statement -- I can think of worse ways to spend welfare money (unfortunately, I have personal experience with this thanks to many irresponsible members of my family when I was growing up). At least the person in question spends it on gifts for *other people.*
Anonymous
twentysomethingmom wrote:Most people I know from my hometown are totally unskilled, have tons of kids, and manage go to community college/work crap jobs while staying off welfare. It's not that hard (unless you live in a place with literally NO internet/access to community college). It may sound like an obscenely hard life to some, but this is kinda how the rest of the country lives...



Many people live like that here, as well, but most of them will say that they are lucky to have a job at all. It's harder in the big city, and harder when people aren't "twentysomething" any more. If, that is, you're not trolling.
twentysomethingmom
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Um, most people are grateful to have a job anywhere.... No one is disputing that. My point is that signing up for community college/re-training/volunteering to get new skills is a PART OF LIFE and not some absurd, unfair expectation in most of the country. How the h*** is that trolling? Do you just declare anyone you disagree with a "troll?"



Anonymous wrote:
twentysomethingmom wrote:Most people I know from my hometown are totally unskilled, have tons of kids, and manage go to community college/work crap jobs while staying off welfare. It's not that hard (unless you live in a place with literally NO internet/access to community college). It may sound like an obscenely hard life to some, but this is kinda how the rest of the country lives...



Many people live like that here, as well, but most of them will say that they are lucky to have a job at all. It's harder in the big city, and harder when people aren't "twentysomething" any more. If, that is, you're not trolling.
Anonymous
Why work at mcdonalds when welfare pays you the same or more
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why work at mcdonalds when welfare pays you the same or more


Maybe you have not heard, but McDonald's have more applications than available jobs. College grads are applying to flip the burgers in this economy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Why work at mcdonalds when welfare pays you the same or more


Because you can't stay on welfare without a job. That's how it is designed.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why work at mcdonalds when welfare pays you the same or more


Maybe you have not heard, but McDonald's have more applications than available jobs. College grads are applying to flip the burgers in this economy.


Then why is unemployment so high
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
If by the 3rd or 4th of the month you have nothing left, how do you live for the rest of the month?


NP here. I've worked for most of the last 22 years in a local soup kitchen. I can say from experience that you can always tell when welfare checks come out. The attendance at the soup kitchen drops sharply. Over the next 2-4 weeks, the attendance will increase steadily as people use up their welfare checks. As has been pointed out, many of them do not have basic life skills for taking care of themselves and budgeting. They really don't understand that spending $5 on groceries will last them longer and they will be able to save more money for other things, than spending $5 on a quick meal at McDonald's. Some of them live in the local dive motel for 1-2 weeks and then they go and live under the bridge for the last couple of weeks of the month (during warm weather) or they go to the shelter for the rest of the month. Some shack up together. It is not unusual to have 8-10 guys sharing a motel room for the night.

Although there are many like this, there are also many who are the ones that the system was set up for. I knew one guy who worked as a mechanics assistant. He worked at three shops, but they only gave him a few hours each. He would work anywhere from 8 hours to 24 hours per week at these shops. when he worked 20 or more hours, he would be able to catch up on his meager rent and feed himself for a few days. When he worked less, he would be in the soup kitchen. I always loved shifts when this guy didn't show up...it usually meant he was working more.

As for those who ask why some people stay on unemployment or welfare instead of getting a job? There are many jobs out there that pay less than these people get from unemployment or welfare benefit checks. If you can get a minimum wage job, but it only gives you 24 hours per week of work, you probably get less take-home pay than your welfare/unemployment check. If that's the case, then you stay on welfare/unemployment as long as you can and you only worry about trying to find a job when the benefits dry up.

The system is great for those who it was designed for. For the chronic unemployed, it needs a major overhaul.
Anonymous

My mom thought I wouldn't have a grocery bill since I receive WIC benefits. She was shocked to see what it really provides. I appreciate it, for sure, but it's basically only milk, cheese (16oz), eggs (2 cartons), cereal (2 boxes), bread (2loaves), juice, a small jar of peanut butter, and a small allotment for fruit and veg ($6). I don't have my checks in front of me, but this sounds right.

I still have to put a lot (for me) of money towards groceries. I've heard that food stamps are better because there's more latitude in what you can get. On WIC, you can only get the specific things listed. I wish, for example, that I could get yogurt or more cheese instead of all of the milk I'm offered through WIC. Evidently, you can't transfer the $$ to a similar food.

Anonymous

"If by the 3rd or 4th of the month you have nothing left, how do you live for the rest of the month?"

I've heard comfortably middle class friends say the same thing, that their paycheck comes in and goes out within days----especially those saddled with enormous student loan debt.
Anonymous
Unemployment is high because there aren't enough jobs available.

"Welfare" does not send you a check for decades on end. Cash assistance is only available for a few years to each person and it's very difficult to qualify for.

I wish everyone here talking about "welfare checks" would invest a few minutes to learn about how these programs actually work. If you're happy to be fed inaccurate information from places like Fox News, then carry on in your ignorance and stupidity. But, please, don't try to join a conversation without having even the most basic understanding.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why work at mcdonalds when welfare pays you the same or more


Maybe you have not heard, but McDonald's have more applications than available jobs. College grads are applying to flip the burgers in this economy.


Then why is unemployment so high


Because the jobs are not there. Everyone is competing for the same jobs. Your question is odd.
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