How old were you when you lost your virginity?

[Anonymous]

Don't worry 19:43, 24 is nothing. I have a GF who is 33 and has never been kissed, let alone done "the deed." (She also has several cats and a spare bedroom for her Snoopy collection, which helps explain the situation.) 24 is well within within the normal range.

[Anonymous]

The age 24 poster, here:

Thanks, PP. I'm 41 now, on DCUM (so you can accurately assume I have a child or two or three) and well over my "first time" age situation. But it was sort of an issue at the time. I was a little embarassed to admit it. Felt a little left out of the conversation, so to speak. But I did have a very lovely initiation, and almost 100% completely fantastic subsequent experiences.

Not sure how else it could've gone down (no pun intended) for me, otherwise. I suppose I'd have just had a few wan pseudo-relationships or maybe some bewildering one night stands? Because I know for sure I wasn't ready to fall in love until my mid-to-late twenties.

[Anonymous]

I was 20 and had just transferred here after living in a small southern town all my life. I stupidly slept with a horrible, horrible classmate of mine. He stalked me mercilessly when I tried to cut things off and harassed me until I dropped out and moved home. It was horrible -- I was so scarred from the whole experience that I didn't date again until I was 25. When DH and I moved back to DC last year for his job, I was actually scared for a moment that I'd somehow see my stalker again, but thankfully he gotten bored after 3-4 years of sending me scary emails and phone calls.

[Anonymous]

At 12 I was raped but that didn't count as losing my virginity but about three months after that I consented to my boyfriend at the time no I didn't regret it we were in his basement and messing around and ended up having sex I consented to it but we broke up but were still great friend is his best friends with him so we hang out all the time yes my best friend is a guy it doesn't matter if Im a girl I went to this thing called the silver ring thing a got a second chance ring

[Anonymous]

I'm virgin and I'm 24

[Anonymous]

Lost my virginity to my first love -- also a virgin. Sweetest sex. I still think of him.

[Anonymous]

I was 23, she was 22.

[Anonymous]

I was 18.....over Christms break of my freshman year at a very religious university where sex was a no=no.

Found out later some of my friends had been sleeping with boy friends all thru high school but never told me.

[Anonymous]

I'm sad that 13 year old girls are having sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:16. He was 19 and also a virgin.

Me too. He was my boyfriend on and off for years and a really nice guy. It was a nice experience and I don't regret it. We are still in touch vaguely through Facebook and I totally wish him well.

[Anonymous]

I was 19 and he was 24 (and not a virgin ).

[Anonymous]

14 and she was 14. And after that it was a hell of a great ride through HS amd college. Who knew so many girls wanted Friday night fun .

[Anonymous]

19

[Anonymous]

24, guy who was shy with women but could always make them laugh. I felt embarassed and told a female friend who said it was ridiculous to feel that way as everyone has their own pace. A month later I lost it with another person. Still think about her once in a while.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:16 and 24. Don't let your kids work in a restaurant!

Ha! I'd say don't let your kids work period. Everyone I knew who was working in high school had a huge hook up scene at their job.

Tell me about it. I had a high school job at Burger King and nobody left that summer without some action, even the nerds.