Do you know anybody in your life that is bisexual?

[Anonymous]

The DMV is filled with bi folks.

[Anonymous]

Two married couples I know are swingers - does that count? I don't think any of them identify as bi though.

[Anonymous]

Yes, she’s married to a woman.

[Anonymous]

Ice t said it best

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most people I know are bi. This will prob be a hot take in this conservative board.

My sister- has a husband + is dating a girl she's hoping to become more serious with. Professional type people.

My other sister- has a boyfriend, but identifies as bi/pan

My child's father (we have 2 kids) cheats on his women using grindr, new gf every year. Jock type, never would think he's bi. I now assume all men are bi and have trust issues.

My son and daughter- both came out as bi to me this year, haven't told their dad. They are kids though, so I am not making it a big deal, may change. Neither old enough to date, just going based off their crushes. Elementary school age.

My best friend- I hooked up with her in the past. I'm the only woman she's been with. She's single and a bit picky, but I see her finding a guy.

Me- single, focused on my kids and won't do OLD anymore. But open to marrying a woman someday when I have more time to focus on that. Men I mostly just like sexually. But I would maybe be open to having a similar poly situation that my sister has if I did find a good man. When I've dated men I have made it clear I need to date women too.

You have two elementary school aged kids and both of them have "come out" to you as bi?? Seems like you put a huge focus on sexuality with your kids which is very odd.

[Anonymous]

I'm a lesbian and I have a married friend who is bi. She and I periodically get together and I know her husband quite well. They seem very happy. He has joked about a threesome but I'm not interested. She would have to be very interested in it for me to really consider it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a lesbian and I have a married friend who is bi. She and I periodically get together and I know her husband quite well. They seem very happy. He has joked about a threesome but I'm not interested. She would have to be very interested in it for me to really consider it.

You are disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most people I know are bi. This will prob be a hot take in this conservative board.

My sister- has a husband + is dating a girl she's hoping to become more serious with. Professional type people.

My other sister- has a boyfriend, but identifies as bi/pan

My child's father (we have 2 kids) cheats on his women using grindr, new gf every year. Jock type, never would think he's bi. I now assume all men are bi and have trust issues.

My son and daughter- both came out as bi to me this year, haven't told their dad. They are kids though, so I am not making it a big deal, may change. Neither old enough to date, just going based off their crushes. Elementary school age.

My best friend- I hooked up with her in the past. I'm the only woman she's been with. She's single and a bit picky, but I see her finding a guy.

Me- single, focused on my kids and won't do OLD anymore. But open to marrying a woman someday when I have more time to focus on that. Men I mostly just like sexually. But I would maybe be open to having a similar poly situation that my sister has if I did find a good man. When I've dated men I have made it clear I need to date women too.

You have two elementary school aged kids and both of them have "come out" to you as bi?? Seems like you put a huge focus on sexuality with your kids which is very odd.

+1. Seriously. This one is very concerning.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm a lesbian and I have a married friend who is bi. She and I periodically get together and I know her husband quite well. They seem very happy. He has joked about a threesome but I'm not interested. She would have to be very interested in it for me to really consider it.

You are disgusting.

Why am I disgusting? Because I’m gay? Because my friend is bi? That a threesome is a very far off possibility? We are not all tight ass heterosexuals who believe their way is the only right way. These threads are full of people like you who are miserable in their straight relationships.

[Anonymous]

The thing about the bi women in NoVA is that they are so good at hiding it and blending in. Half the women I work with in a very professional setting have female side friends. To me, maybe it shows that men aren’t doing it for many ladies. Most of the women in my social circle mess with females privately - not all, but quite a few. LOT of these women are in their forties. Tons.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The thing about the bi women in NoVA is that they are so good at hiding it and blending in. Half the women I work with in a very professional setting have female side friends. To me, maybe it shows that men aren’t doing it for many ladies. Most of the women in my social circle mess with females privately - not all, but quite a few. LOT of these women are in their forties. Tons.

I have a few friends like this and they do a girls weekend a couple of times a year. I was invited once and I was told that things often got “very frisky” which to me was bi code so I said no thanks. It wasn’t just the words it’s how she said them. Their marriages seem pretty solid and maybe their husbands are clueless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The thing about the bi women in NoVA is that they are so good at hiding it and blending in. Half the women I work with in a very professional setting have female side friends. To me, maybe it shows that men aren’t doing it for many ladies. Most of the women in my social circle mess with females privately - not all, but quite a few. LOT of these women are in their forties. Tons.

It sounds like you just know a lot of people with problems.

But, straight, whatever -- don't cheat on your spouse (just get a divorce!) and don't be messy and sneaky. These people sound childish.

[Anonymous]

Husband came out as bi when he was caught cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm a lesbian and I have a married friend who is bi. She and I periodically get together and I know her husband quite well. They seem very happy. He has joked about a threesome but I'm not interested. She would have to be very interested in it for me to really consider it.

I'm a man, my wife is bi but hasn't met anybody like you yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What is their relationship status / marriage like? Can’t really imagine the challenges of this. Know a few folks that are interested in both men and women; feels inherently tricky.

I THINK you are thinking that because they like both genders they get a pass to cheat? Why would you think that?