I call BS. Very few bisexual people I know have 3somes. They are monogamous with their parter. And every bi person you know is having them- that's just in your fantasy. |
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I am a woman and consider myself bisexual. Happily married to a woman for 20 years and have never cheated or wanted to.
It’s not tricky at all. I know a few other people that are bi. Bring attracted to men and women doesnt make you any less faithful unless you were that way to start with.. |
++ Most cheaters are straight men! |
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We have friends in most of the alphabet communities. Def a high number of bi & openly poly. The women are often more out than the men. We are the boring straight monogamous couple in the group. That’s not our only community, no idea on what the less visible ratios are in neighborhood and the pta crowd.
I have no doubt that if we weren’t together i would be dating men and women. Younger me wasn’t interested. So cliche. |
That's no different then heterosexual. They just decide to commit to one person and control any urge for others. Bisexual can also make a decision and stick with it. If that doesn't workout, they tok can divorce. |
| People who don't want to stay monogamous, can come up with all sorts of excuses, no matter if they are straight, gay or bi or tri. |
| Yes female. Married to a man. She seems to be open about having a girlfriend. I don’t ask not my bizz. |
They’re drunk and experimenting |
Um, I said 1 is, not every one. She engaged in threesomes and group sex before they met. She was a member at a swinger's club. She's always been turned on by M/M things (we've known each other nearly 30.years, I know A LOT about her) so having the relationship she has just makes sense. |
Stop saying this. It’s where the backlash is coming from. I’m not on a spectrum. People insisting on it feels predatory. I want to support everyone but I totally get why there is backlash. —Straight happily married woman |
Snorted my coffee. +1 |
It is all one person. You can like more than one type of dessert and still enjoy the one you are eating at the time. |
It's called marriage.... |
Yes, I don't understand why people have a hard time with this. Unless you think straight people are also closing off part of themselves when they get married. Bisexuality isn't polyamory. |