Do you know anybody in your life that is bisexual?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most people I know are bi. This will prob be a hot take in this conservative board.

My sister- has a husband + is dating a girl she's hoping to become more serious with. Professional type people.

My other sister- has a boyfriend, but identifies as bi/pan

My child's father (we have 2 kids) cheats on his women using grindr, new gf every year. Jock type, never would think he's bi. I now assume all men are bi and have trust issues.

My son and daughter- both came out as bi to me this year, haven't told their dad. They are kids though, so I am not making it a big deal, may change. Neither old enough to date, just going based off their crushes. Elementary school age.

My best friend- I hooked up with her in the past. I'm the only woman she's been with. She's single and a bit picky, but I see her finding a guy.

Me- single, focused on my kids and won't do OLD anymore. But open to marrying a woman someday when I have more time to focus on that. Men I mostly just like sexually. But I would maybe be open to having a similar poly situation that my sister has if I did find a good man. When I've dated men I have made it clear I need to date women too.

This would be exhausting for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope.

You really can’t know that for sure. Of the three friends I have who I know are bi, all three are women and two are married to men. The third is in a LTR with a woman now but was in a LTR with a man when I first knew her. For the two married people, I had no reason to know until they mentioned it to me. For the other, I didn’t know until she got out of her LTR and started dating again.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but in all cases the bi woman ends up with a man and the bi man ends up with a man.

I think it's because a man will accept a woman being bi but the thought of a man with another man gives most women the ick and it's a dealbreaker.

[Anonymous]

It's 2026.

[Anonymous]

Yes, one of my best friends since college. He is married to a straight woman. They have MMF threesomes (voluntary TMI, I did not ask). No kids. They’ve been together over 25 years.

[Anonymous]

No but I can ask my lgtqia2+ friends from water polo. I don’t really care.

[Anonymous]

I assume the mainstream ones stay quiet if they’re actively dating and switching pic otherwise they’re in an active alternative queer community and taking HPrep.

Am not talking about those were told to experiment in college or “explore your gender and orientation” like GdS does in health ed.

[Anonymous]

My ex is bi - it was not a surprise when he told me post divorce. He remarried another woman. I know that he still scans Grinder. I'm not sure if he would act on it - he's a pretty stand up person - but I feel bad for him as I think he is suppressing himself and that cannot be fun. His new spouse new he was bi when they married.

[Anonymous]

Tbh this is not important to me. If you are in a hetero marriage and you say you are bi, I'm like "okay." It would be like someone telling me they married a tall thin person but are also attracted to short heavier people. Ok, good for you, but I don't care? That's your private business. Why are you making a thing about it?

I had a colleague who used to lecture me about "bi visibility" and truly I don't get it. Why does it have to be visible? If you wind up in a same sex relationship I think it's important that's accepted and no one is discriminated against, so that's different. But if you are cis and in a hetero marriage, why is it important that the rest of us "see" that you are bi? It just feels like attention seeking behavior to me at that point, like you need people to understand you're not just some boring straight person. But, friend, I hate to break this to you --you are still just some boring straight person. The fact that you *would* date someone of the same sex is meaningless.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is a Bi if they go 6 months without sex.

[Anonymous]

At least half the professional women I know I my circle are. This is a Northern Virginia set of professional feminine women from ages 35 to 50. Some are married and many are not. They do not outwardly advertise it. Many of these women are 8s, and 9s

[Anonymous]

Like “once upon a time” or like “on an ongoing basis keep switching it up”?

Also, always the dominant role or switch that up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At least half the professional women I know I my circle are. This is a Northern Virginia set of professional feminine women from ages 35 to 50. Some are married and many are not. They do not outwardly advertise it. Many of these women are 8s, and 9s

At least! The married female bi bars be hopping in NoVA.

[Anonymous]

It’s all that being married to a passive temper tantruming ManChild, ramps up their T playing both roles in the household so they turn bi and find a cool woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:At least half the professional women I know I my circle are. This is a Northern Virginia set of professional feminine women from ages 35 to 50. Some are married and many are not. They do not outwardly advertise it. Many of these women are 8s, and 9s

At least! The married female bi bars be hopping in NoVA.

There’s such a thing as a married female bi bar in NoVA? Please share details. Asking for a friend.