Would you feel bad if your kid was added late to an invitation?

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't be offended and would definitely notice the aged RSVPs in my new evite! If it worked and I wanted to, I would. There are lots of reasons to not be in the initial cut.

We received that (adult version) for a political fundraiser. Probably we are not heavy hitters financially and they had some spots open after initial RSVPs. It did not work for us but I'm not bitter about the sender at all.

Really? I don't think it would ever occur to me to look at that or have a thought about it. If my kid is invited somewhere then they'll go if they want to. Some of you are so high maintenance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t be offended at all. There’s not space for everyone so choices have to be made. I have boys so maybe it’s different?

I have all girls and I wouldn't be offended.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not OP but I had to reschedule my kid's birthday party due to the storm. I didn't invite kids I knew wouldn't be available (I'd mentioned it/chatted with their parents beforehand). Would it be okay to invite them to the new date.

It's fine, but you probably should have invited them in the first place even if you knew they couldn't come.

Why?