Would you feel bad if your kid was added late to an invitation?

[Anonymous]

Just send an email as if the elite didn’t exist. Problem solved!

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Anonymous wrote:Just send an email as if the elite didn’t exist. Problem solved!

*evite

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Anonymous wrote:No if it wasn’t a good friend, but I would take note of it. I would let my kid go if they wanted to. Of course it’s a b list op.

I don’t have to invite the new girl (not in same class) or last class girl. Both those girls are not in my child’s friend group.

My friend’s daughter has many friends who will be at the party and she will definitely hear about it. That friend has invited my daughter to her party that is after my daughter’s birthday.

You waited too late. Your friends knows about the party from her daughter's other friends. She's knows she B list.

And she already invited your daughter to her kid's party that is later.

You look bad here, op. You handled this poorly.

So it is better just to not invite my friend’s daughter?

My friend’s daughter is difficult. The mom acknowledges and knows her daughter is difficult.

My daughter still doesn’t really want to invite her. She just isn’t objecting anymore.

So your wore your daughter down

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Anonymous wrote:No if it wasn’t a good friend, but I would take note of it. I would let my kid go if they wanted to. Of course it’s a b list op.

I don’t have to invite the new girl (not in same class) or last class girl. Both those girls are not in my child’s friend group.

My friend’s daughter has many friends who will be at the party and she will definitely hear about it. That friend has invited my daughter to her party that is after my daughter’s birthday.

You waited too late. Your friends knows about the party from her daughter's other friends. She's knows she B list.

And she already invited your daughter to her kid's party that is later.

You look bad here, op. You handled this poorly.

So it is better just to not invite my friend’s daughter?

My friend’s daughter is difficult. The mom acknowledges and knows her daughter is difficult.

My daughter still doesn’t really want to invite her. She just isn’t objecting anymore.

You knew she was "difficult" when your pressured your daughter to invite her, right. Poorly handled by you, op. Don't blame your daughter or your friend or your friend's daughter.

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Anonymous wrote:Not OP but I had to reschedule my kid's birthday party due to the storm. I didn't invite kids I knew wouldn't be available (I'd mentioned it/chatted with their parents beforehand). Would it be okay to invite them to the new date.

I would. Say dates changed hoping you can make the new date.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t be offended at all. There’s not space for everyone so choices have to be made. I have boys so maybe it’s different?

[Anonymous]

I notice this but am not offended by it, especially when it's at a venue where headcount is limited. I had to do this myself for my kid's party at an escape room place where they could only invite 10 or so kids - if someone couldn't make it, we'd add someone to the invite list.

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Anonymous wrote:Not OP but I had to reschedule my kid's birthday party due to the storm. I didn't invite kids I knew wouldn't be available (I'd mentioned it/chatted with their parents beforehand). Would it be okay to invite them to the new date.

It's fine, but you probably should have invited them in the first place even if you knew they couldn't come.

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Anonymous wrote:Not OP but I had to reschedule my kid's birthday party due to the storm. I didn't invite kids I knew wouldn't be available (I'd mentioned it/chatted with their parents beforehand). Would it be okay to invite them to the new date.

It's fine, but you probably should have invited them in the first place even if you knew they couldn't come.

I guess I'd casually invited them because I texted their parents first, I just didn't send them the Evite.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would decline. I would not be annoyed about my child not making the “A” list, like “boo hoo,” but I would be annoyed that you, like most people, are not aware of general standards of manners that dictate that you do not do this. Or maybe you are, but you are letting your emotion for YOUR child (“Not many people are coming so Larla will be sad at her party!”) override your common sense.

[Anonymous]

It’s fine. People have all kinds of reasons for that. They took forever to get the last of the addresses. Mostly they forgot to add two kids who should have been on the list. No big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would decline. I would not be annoyed about my child not making the “A” list, like “boo hoo,” but I would be annoyed that you, like most people, are not aware of general standards of manners that dictate that you do not do this. Or maybe you are, but you are letting your emotion for YOUR child (“Not many people are coming so Larla will be sad at her party!”) override your common sense.

We actually have a full party. All girls invited are coming except one who has a sporting event conflict.

My daughter and my friend’s daughter will probably never be good friends. They have friends in common. I believe the girl may be on the spectrum or have some sort of other special needs. I say this to explain why her personality is difficult. Most of my daughter’s friends are very calm. Friend’s daughter tends to make situations dramatic leaving people upset.

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I wouldn't feel bad because I don't care enough. I also wouldn't bother to send my kid.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, I would decline. I would not be annoyed about my child not making the “A” list, like “boo hoo,” but I would be annoyed that you, like most people, are not aware of general standards of manners that dictate that you do not do this. Or maybe you are, but you are letting your emotion for YOUR child (“Not many people are coming so Larla will be sad at her party!”) override your common sense.

We actually have a full party. All girls invited are coming except one who has a sporting event conflict.

My daughter and my friend’s daughter will probably never be good friends. They have friends in common. I believe the girl may be on the spectrum or have some sort of other special needs. I say this to explain why her personality is difficult. Most of my daughter’s friends are very calm. Friend’s daughter tends to make situations dramatic leaving people upset.

Maybe she is difficult because you and your daughter makes it obvious she isn't really welcome.

[Anonymous]

I did it once. The party place has a limit of 25 but we had probably double than that in mind. Had to add people after some declined. Some never respond. You do your invite and people decide whether they will come.