Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:School administrator here. There is an ugliness and ignorance in this thread. Those who are begrudging families receiving financial aid are actually the ones who are wildly out of sync with school culture.
1. It is not accurate that most families want to get rid of financial aid. I work in school philanthropy and it's the #1 reason that the biggest donors cite when contributing to the annual fund. There's a benefit, as another poster said, to every student to having socio-economic diversity in the community. These students will graduate into a world with income disparity. They need the skills and awareness to communicate with others outside their economic class in order to function in their careers.
2. Why do you care what someone else's children wear? If they found a way to buy name brands cheaply, good for them! They don't owe it to you to spend every last minute trying to increase their income. There's a lot of wealth in these schools, and children who receive financial aid are surrounded by evidence of affluence. If they can wear a North Face jacket and feel more like they fit in, that's wonderful. They're still not going to be able to brag about skiing in Switzerland over winter break, which is what they hear other kids doing.
3. For those two parents working in low-paying nonprofit jobs? Good for them. Yes, the financial aid program wants to support those families! And they are often the ones who volunteer and bring the knowledge about how to run a sustainable non-profit (like the school itself) to their school committees, boards, parents associations.
4. A family getting a "sibling discount?" Why not? We love those families, so long as all the kids can meet the admissions standards. And when you apply $55K per tuition times 3 kids, and then do the math on the pre-tax income needed to support that? It means you can make a good income and still qualify for assistance.
5. I doubt very much there's any fraud going on. FAFSA and the business office know a lot more than you about a family's finances, job situation, etc.
Just by kind, OP, and stay out of it.
This attitude that kids on significant FA are only there to benefit the rich kids - to help them know how to talk to low income people they might run into - is appalling and unsurprising. Like having a few Black kids around for the benefit of the white kids.